Re: pain med... Originally Posted by stephera I was just wandering because they gave my sister n law some kind of pain medicine when she was about a 7 and she's saying that she did it natural!! I just think that if you have any kind of pain med that it is not totally natural.
There are as many understandings of "natural birth" as there are women. There are many women who simply think a vaginal birth is "natural," even with epidural, pitocin, oxygen, vacuum, &c, all the way to the hard core natural birth crowd who think any intervention at all (monitoring, AROM, &C) makes it not natural and give the mother guilt trips for allowing evil OB personnel to do stuff to them (I encountered this attitude in one place I worked).
I think a woman has the right to call her birth natural if she wants to. It's her body, her experience, her birth, after all.
Good outcome (healthy mom and baby) is the ultimate goal -- however you get there. Guilt tripping women into feeling bad because they didn't have a "natural" or unmedicated or complicated birth is not good. Whether or not having an IV pain med is natural or not isn't important, either. Birth hurts like hell and most women don't anticipate in advance how much it will hurt.
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