My good friend is a 'witch' at work

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I was talking to one of my good friends. I've worked with her, yes she is rather difficult at work. She loathes those with skill levels beneath her. She is belittling, condescending, she undermines the confidence of less experienced souls.

She is an IV therapist now. I know, from talking to her, that she, herself feels insecure because she is so specialized. I know about her other insecurities.

She has a well earned reputation, in my opinion, for 'eating her young'.

Today I was talking to her. We often talk shop. I got to talking about someone in my dept (ER) experiencing some difficulties, and of course she got on to the subject of poor Jane, who is soooooo terrible, blah, blah, blah, but is fortunately going back to Tele, yada, yada, yada.

I was talking to my favorite Nursing Sup. We were wondering why really fun and cool people are so difficult in the workplace? She knew who we were talking about, by the way...

This is why I keep friendship separate from work. I didn't want the gossip, I didn't want the friend to expect more from me or for me to feel like I had to give "favors" for a friend. Tolerating such behavior is detrimental to productivity. Gossip can poison a unit, and make it impossible to really be a team. Plus, this filters out to the patients, they feel the "air" on a unit and can tell if it is friendly or not. Tolderating such behavior also just encourages it. By ignoring it you are endorsing it.

Specializes in Cardiac, ER, Pediatrics, Corrections.

I know a girl who is a lot like this. She was nice as a friend but very cocky as a nurse. She works in LTC and acts like she knows everything. She belittles CNAs and LPNs. I know one of her coworkers and no one has any respect for her. I do not blame her coworkers for hating her!

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