Doctors are Bullies

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Has anybody got a link to an article which was in the nursing journal from the ANA last month about doctors and how to deal with them as bullies??

I cannot find my journal as I need to find a copy and take it to work.

I had to challenge a Doctor yesterday and he couldn't believe it, but I refuse to be treated like a second class citizen by a Doctor from a third world country who down treads his own woman and thinks he can do the same to the nurses. I informed my manager that I was fuming and what I had said, she was fine with it because all her staff are fed up to the back teeth of the hospitalists in my hospital.

I am sick of not being given respect, and I stood my ground.

The doctor had a grievance but in my opinion when the wrong way about it and his arrogance and god syndrome wont wash with me.

The nurses where I work are afraid of the doctors and worry when they have to page them incase their head gets bitten off-what kind of behaviour is that-bullying is what it is. They stomp around the floor muttering about the nursing staff and the incompetence of the nurses but dont ever ever take a nurse to one side in private and discuss with them the problem they need sorting or to question why an order wasn't carried out. We dont need parents, we are not children who need to be scolded-we are professions in our right who deserve to be given respect.

Well I for one am not and I repeat not putting up with it any more and I shall be putting in my own grievance. So watch this space

Even the nicest doctors can get crabby once in a while, and I allow them that. Heck, I get crabby on a regular basis and I'd like to think it's understandable that if my blood sugar is in the toilet and I haven't had a chance to pee for six solid hours, that others would cut me a little slack if I'm not Suzi Sunshine.

I had a doctor call me a "smart cookie" in front of a patient tonight. She came over later and apologized for calling me a cookie in front of the patient. She was so horrified that she had said that....I laughed, and told her it was fine. I've been called worse, and I like cookies, especially the smart kind!:lol2:

Good points . . .. .and I have to add that we HAVE gotten a bit too politically correct at work. I've told this story before but our very nice and shy long-haired hippy computer dude :smokin: at work walked by the nurses' station one day and said "Hello girls". A supervisor WROTE HIM UP! Without asking US if we minded being called girls. We all made her retract it.

As I age, being called a "girl" sounds way better than "Ma'am".

Just an aside . ... my husband is on our local Little League Board and there are two new people in the community who are doing some gossiping and backstabbing and pushing of their own child to the detriment of other children . . . ..so this "bullying" behavior happens in all walks of life. Sad.

steph

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