Co-worker talking behind my back "did i handel this right"

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There are some days I fell like I am still in school (5th grade) :uhoh3: today I found out that a co-worker (the boss's pet ) was going around and talking behind my back . My boss had been giving me evil looks all day and I did not know why ? I was then told that this co-worker was talking about me behind my back , Among other things he was bragging about being able to get the temps fired and had some kind of pool going as to how long it would be tell I was fired . He has openly said he hates he :confused: and I have no idea way I hadly talk to him and have done nothing to him ..

anyway I had to decide wether to talk to him one on one or talk to my boss ? I called my boss because I wanted her to know that what he was saying was not true before I got written up (again ) on his word , he said she would handel it and later he came over and said he was sorry :mad: but now the people that told me what he was saying are mad at me for saying anything :confused: but there is no way I was going to let that ride ?? and later I saw him and my boss playing and my boss just told him he could take the night off for helping her :eek:

Ha. Our old NM let 5 people quit in furious anger when her "pet" stole their hours ($), overtime ($), seats at committee meetings (prestige), and shifted her work onto others because she was talking on the phone all the time. Some of the people that complained first and tried to take it up the chain had been there 11 years and this pet had been there a year tops (after she had been FIRED from 3 other facilities). When management just smiled sweetly and stated that things wouldn't change, 5 of us quit within days of each other. And I hear that since then another 2 have gotten fired after getting into it with "the pet."

Other than that job, I've had other jobs where conflicts with coworkers were making conditions unsafe. I took it to HR, where the coworker said that I was posessed by the devil, Jesus told her, and that's why she was not helping me. HR just smiled and said she was a good Christian and didn't do anything about this lady not doing her work. It was all my problem. I wish I had an audio tape that day, I'd probably be rich now. As is, it was my first job and I was so horrified that I scuttled out of there and quit without notice.

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Specializes in Medical.
I took it to HR, where the coworker said that I was posessed by the devil, Jesus told her, and that's why she was not helping me. HR just smiled and said she was a good Christian and didn't do anything about this lady not doing her work. It was all my problem. I wish I had an audio tape that day, I'd probably be rich now.

Where are you working now? Because I want no truck with the devil's minions. And I'm not surprised to see you're talking about money - you probably sold your soul!

What a wackadoo. Awesome HR department, too :rolleyes:

Specializes in Med-Surg, Home Health, LTC.
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