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1. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

   NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

   BINGO!!! thats what i wanted to know....HOW IS LIFE LIKE BEING MARRIED TO A NURSE!! thats exactly what I wanted to know!! aside from the pinpoited questions of my own fears...THANK YOU FOR TRULY UNDERSTANDING MY QUESTION...which is not hard as long a...

2. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

   NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

   No she didn't drop out... She said she would just to keep me in her life...I IMMEDIATLY TOLD HER NO... do nothing for me... take care of you. Thats where alot of this posting comes from....I have no rite to tell her to not follow her dreams I have no...

3. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

   NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

   well YEAH!!! thats what i am trying to do..be supportive and first i got to squash all the myths i have in my head about the bad stuff of nursing...in reality I am trying to be the best support she has...she lost everyone during her schooling! How c...

4. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

   NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

   Thank you for that.... actually i have discussed this issue with my girl over the past weekend.... I tried to listen to her...but it was hard to take her advice since see is so new... Kinda like if you go to a mechanic and says i was trained to fix y...

5. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

   NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

   Anywho, you came here, I REPEAT, to get some insight into what makes a marriage work. OK #1 lets see if we can understand. I will go slow... IIII Neverrrrrrr Askedddd Anyoneeeee Howwwww Toooo Makeeee Aaaaa Marriageeeee Workkkk!!! I asked for ins...

6. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

   NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

   Exactly!!!! When I said pitfalls...I ment the stuff maybe i didn't think of like i dunno.. ummmm say every x-mas the husbands are required to play santa clause or something... i don't want to make the pitfalls a big issue since certain people in here...

7. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

   NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

   I just don't get it how the hell do I start off asking straight forward questions... then I get socially anaylized about who i really am...All of you must have had some type of concerns or some fights with your S/O. However, does that make u warped a...

8. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

   NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

   Again I don't understand what 1 posting has to do with my entrie relationship....Tell you what... why don't u tell me what a healthy relatinship is. This picture in your head of a quiet evening at the dinner table discussing your day is unrealistic ...

9. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

   NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

   Well sharon first off you state - To label us as "not being willing to help the healthy" is unfair. I labled no such terms what I said was when i try to talk to the nurses about their jobs the elevator opens and they have to run off to people who re...

10. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

    NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

11. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

    NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

    True horror is better then happy go lucky....but come on these a pretty bad horrors... I mean reconstructive sugery.. fatal needle stabs... i hear new ones in the elevator everyday.. Weird stuff too.. like how many drug addicts come in looking for ne...

12. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

    NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

    I work in the upper floors of the hospital in the university admin areas. It all connects to be about 7 blocks wide and long..if you knew where the hospital part was comapred to where I am... you would consider me way out of the way

13. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

    NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

    My biggest fear... ehh nevermind...

14. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

    NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

    I work in the corporate offices on the 20th floors... the main hospital is located basement to 4th floor..I have no interaction with hospital workers.. I only help out the university employees of Columbia Univeristy Medical Center. So I have a physi...

15. Marriage to a Nurse-- Need HELP

    NeedAdvice1234 replied to NeedAdvice1234's topic in General Nursing

    OK moondancer lets revisite your comments here--- You state, "You, not you and your fiancee, but you, need to seek some professional counselling. It is clear you have issues, issues with women, issues with trust, issues with relationships." How is ...