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Hi everyone. I am nto a nurse, however I am in a serious relationship with a Student Nurse. We have been talking marriage for some time now but she needs to graduate school. She will be done with her RN by December 2005. As you can see its right arou...

BINGO!!! thats what i wanted to know....HOW IS LIFE LIKE BEING MARRIED TO A NURSE!! thats exactly what I wanted to know!! aside from the pinpoited questions of my own fears...THANK YOU FOR TRULY UNDERSTANDING MY QUESTION...which is not hard as long a...

No she didn't drop out... She said she would just to keep me in her life...I IMMEDIATLY TOLD HER NO... do nothing for me... take care of you. Thats where alot of this posting comes from....I have no rite to tell her to not follow her dreams I have no...

well YEAH!!! thats what i am trying to do..be supportive and first i got to squash all the myths i have in my head about the bad stuff of nursing...in reality I am trying to be the best support she has...she lost everyone during her schooling! How c...

Thank you for that.... actually i have discussed this issue with my girl over the past weekend.... I tried to listen to her...but it was hard to take her advice since see is so new... Kinda like if you go to a mechanic and says i was trained to fix y...

Anywho, you came here, I REPEAT, to get some insight into what makes a marriage work. OK #1 lets see if we can understand. I will go slow... IIII Neverrrrrrr Askedddd Anyoneeeee Howwwww Toooo Makeeee Aaaaa Marriageeeee Workkkk!!! I asked for ins...

Exactly!!!! When I said pitfalls...I ment the stuff maybe i didn't think of like i dunno.. ummmm say every x-mas the husbands are required to play santa clause or something... i don't want to make the pitfalls a big issue since certain people in here...

I just don't get it how the hell do I start off asking straight forward questions... then I get socially anaylized about who i really am...All of you must have had some type of concerns or some fights with your S/O. However, does that make u warped a...

Again I don't understand what 1 posting has to do with my entrie relationship....Tell you what... why don't u tell me what a healthy relatinship is. This picture in your head of a quiet evening at the dinner table discussing your day is unrealistic ...

Well sharon first off you state - To label us as "not being willing to help the healthy" is unfair. I labled no such terms what I said was when i try to talk to the nurses about their jobs the elevator opens and they have to run off to people who re...

True horror is better then happy go lucky....but come on these a pretty bad horrors... I mean reconstructive sugery.. fatal needle stabs... i hear new ones in the elevator everyday.. Weird stuff too.. like how many drug addicts come in looking for ne...

I work in the upper floors of the hospital in the university admin areas. It all connects to be about 7 blocks wide and long..if you knew where the hospital part was comapred to where I am... you would consider me way out of the way

My biggest fear... ehh nevermind...

I work in the corporate offices on the 20th floors... the main hospital is located basement to 4th floor..I have no interaction with hospital workers.. I only help out the university employees of Columbia Univeristy Medical Center. So I have a physi...

OK moondancer lets revisite your comments here--- You state, "You, not you and your fiancee, but you, need to seek some professional counselling. It is clear you have issues, issues with women, issues with trust, issues with relationships." How is ...

Maybe i lashed out wrong in this forum maybe i didn't...all i know is that I came to seek advice and help in understanding what nursing is about... I know i was off track with a lot of my concerns but I had no opposing information to make me belive o...

Don't they ever rip?? If so do you have to resanitize yourself no matter how fatal the injury is?? I also guess you swap out gloves after every patient

WOW..this is some pretty high pay... Is this a 40hour work week or more like 36 hours??? typically if you were to factor in the time... would it equal to a office job of 40hrs per week?? or less

Well that makes me feel alot better.... Its not that i don't trust her ...i do... i just don't like it when i hear her tell me how some dude was snarling and drooling over her when she went to a bar or something.....Thats when I really become overpro...

I am surprised how many people talk about the gloves.... One of my thoughts was...wow the only things from your and the person is a piece of latex... I guess I underestimate the value of latex..Is it that impenratrble??(sp)

BTW.... I am really going to piss you people off now... I work at New York Presb Hospital.... However, i tried to talk to the staff and noone ever had time for me... even for a lunch to discuss this stuff... they recomended this site... If only they ...

So doctors are not the same scum you find at a bar or dance clubs that just want one thing from you... Most of them probally are married and have better things on their minds?

Good points.... really good points...You see you husband works from home.. Which is what I should try and do... Somehow Someway... If you work nights he can set time for when u get home or during the afternnoon or whenerever your not working or sleep...

Yet another great reply your absoluty right with ... ""you seem to be stuck on is the fact that you will never see her and she won't be home when you get home from work.."" that and the potential of loosing her early to a harmful disease she might ...