Re: Is it just me?
I graduated with my BS in biology (pre-med emphasis) from Missouri State University [show-me-state], so when I travelled to Seattle WA to go to acupuncture school, I was in for a culture shock because Bastyr University is the ultimate hippie school in the US.
It's not that people in my undergrad were cut-throat - we actually helped each other out, the teachers were strict but very helpful. That's what I was used to. One of my advisors used to always say "...if you can't handle the classes, maybe you should try getting a degree in business." That might seem rude to some, but people back home aren't afraid to give you their honest opinion. More often then not, it is somewhat accurate and will save you alot of time and heartache.
But then I went to Bastyr. Wow. It's just that...well...I might be stressed but I don't need a hug. They way I see it, a guy doesn't need a hug unless he is choking.
I couldn't walk down the hall without people hugging each other. During finals, it was even worse. Students crying and being comforted...it drove me nuts. If you can't even handle taking a test, how can you expect to handle a patient?
But the important thing to remember is that if it works for them, great. We all have different motivations and needs, and while I longing look back to the time before Oprah ruined everything, I understand now that the outcome is the most important thing. If a doctor or nurse cries after they had a stressful situation, and is then able to get back to work and perform their job, then their crying isn't a liability. It's just annoying.
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