Re: Splotchy!
As you know, we cannot give medical advice on Allnurses. However, there might be some anxiety-reducing behaviors or ideas that the members might share.
Personally, if I was a patient and you came into my room and offered to help, I wouldn't care if you had tentacles and spoke Klingon, I'd take the help gladly! You don't know how such a simple task as offering to help a patient can seem like hitting the Lottery to that patient, especially when all she can do is lie in bed and stare at the walls.
So my advice would be -- forget about yourself by immersing your thoughts in caring for the patient. It'll change your focus and help you to become less self-conscious.
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