Hello all! So throughout my nursing student experiences we have all wondered why a patient can sign a DNR as their wish but family members can speak up and say "Save my mother!" and the nurses and doctors will then listen to the family and try to save that family member. So why is that does anybody know? I do not get why somebody can make it their wish to not be resuscitated and then someone else's say can trump the patient's wish. Thank you to all who read and reply. I am very interested in hearing everyone's reply.