I am pretty new to nursing and just started working on a post surgical floor. On our floor we get a lot of post-mastectomy patients and last night one of my patients had just come back from having a double mastectomy. She seemed very matter-of-fact about everything and seemed to be dealing with it just fine. I went into her room to assess her drains and she started crying. Her husband was there and came right over to comfort her but I felt awkward. I didn't know what to say or do, or if she even would appreciate me saying or doing anything. I made sure to get her some tissues, but other than that I didn't know what to do. I asked others on my floor how they deal with upset, crying patients and they told me "you just get used to it" and said that mastectomy patients are generally very emotional (for obvious reasons). I am just wondering how others deal with patients who are sad and crying. I am a very caring and sensitive person and I want to be able to convey that to my patients without seeming too emotional or weird or too cold and standoffish.