Treat all patients the same

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You know how everyone says this, and maybe it's just because it's the PC thing to say, but it really isn't true. You can't treat all patients the same, just not possible. I think what is meant by this is: "don't judge/stereotype someone, and then give them the cold shoulder."

It really wouldn't be appropriate to treat a detox and end of life patient the same lol. I am a very kind and compassionate nurse, even to the patients that make it more difficult to be that way, but you really need to be assertive and firm and set limits with certain patients. I guess what should be said is that we should be respectful and provide excellent care to all despite their background. I guess I'm just being annoying with semantics lol, but treating all patients the same would not be advisable. Wouldn't we then be ignoring their "individuality?"

Oh, and what always makes me laugh are those mandatory cultural competencies. Firstly, you're not going to make someone culturally competent in a computer module. Secondly, they say in the module "don't stereotype or judge people based on gender, race, ethnicity", but then give a list of stereotypes for each ethnicity lol. Native Americans are stoic with pain, hispanics treat illness with hot/cold therapies, etc, etc. Oh, the irony.

Specializes in Complex care, tele.
Is it really "better" care, or are you taking cues from them as to the amount of interaction they want from you? :confused:

Couldn't agree more.....everyone is entitled to compassionate nursing care, but I might be more likely to spend a few minutes with a patient who is courteous and respectful (and a sense of humor doesn't hurt either).

My pet peeve is when patients are called up from admitting to tell us that they are "VIP." Sorry, in my line of work, I don't have time to kiss anyone's butt...I give each patient the best care I can give them, regardless of whether they are the President's mother or if she is the woman who picks up his dry cleaning. If a nurse has to be told to be nice to a patient because that patient knows who to complain to, then that nurse may want to look into another line of work.

Specializes in Cardiothoracic ICU.

nobody should act like they give the same care to everybody. obviously you wont give the same care to somebody who is grateful to somebody who is not....

nobody should act like they give the same care to everybody. obviously you wont give the same care to somebody who is grateful to somebody who is not....

I would follow orders the same, assess the same, evaluate the same, call the MD for changes the same, get supplies the same, respond to the call light the same, etc. I don't have to LIKE them....but that doesn't mean I'm going to rip off the gnarly one just because he/she isn't kissing MY butt. :)

Providing care and liking the patient are not the same. Or necessary. :)

Specializes in Leadership, Psych, HomeCare, Amb. Care.
You can treat patients equally well without treating them 'the same'. No two people are the same, thus no two people will ever be treated the same. But that doesn't mean they are inequal, and I guess that's what the "treat patients all the same" idea is getting at.

Ditto.

I don't treat people the same.

But my goal is to treat them equally according to their needs.

Couldn't agree more.....everyone is entitled to compassionate nursing care, but I might be more likely to spend a few minutes with a patient who is courteous and respectful (and a sense of humor doesn't hurt either).

My pet peeve is when patients are called up from admitting to tell us that they are "VIP." Sorry, in my line of work, I don't have time to kiss anyone's butt...I give each patient the best care I can give them, regardless of whether they are the President's mother or if she is the woman who picks up his dry cleaning. If a nurse has to be told to be nice to a patient because that patient knows who to complain to, then that nurse may want to look into another line of work.

I also dislike the whole "VIP status" thing. I've had 2 VIP patients in my (almost) one year of nursing, which I didn't find out were "VIP"s until near the end of my shift. Would I have done anything different? NOPE! Even then I didn't now WHY they were VIP and didn't bother to ask. I think I found out why during report cuz that nurse had been there a couple years and knew the patient or the name or something.

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