Those Darn Diabetics

Difficult diabetics present some of the biggest challenges in health care today. Many docs and nurses dislike this population and view them as "problem children." What they don't realize is that patients need time to process their feelings about the diagnosis, and when they don't get that time, they can easily see the professionals as the enemy. Nurses Announcements Archive Article

Those Darn Diabetics!

Do you ever wish difficult type 2 diabetics weren't your headache? Your wish has been granted. They aren't your problem anymore.

You read that right. They are not your problem. They are your patients who have a particular problem. Such a distinction may seem fussy, but it actually represents a pivot point for changing old attitudes and responses toward people who are used to feeling like perennial problem children.

Under the established system, as soon as tests confirm the diagnosis of type 2 diabetes, we lead patients to a conveyor belt. Most hop on by themselves. If they don't, we're happy to give them a nudge (or even a shove). Members of the healthcare assembly line then outfit the patients with armloads of widgets, gadgets and instructions.

But what about the ones who don't go peaceably? You've seen them. They test once a day (if that) when the order is for four times. They don't get their prescriptions filled, or if they do, they don't take the meds. They think they're dieting when they settle for a two-scoop cone instead of a banana split. They lie, even when their HA1c levels rat them out. And some of them simply leave and don't come back for years.

We often fuss about having to respect patient autonomy, but with this crowd we're secretly thankful for such a broad and convenient excuse to hide behind. If they choose to be noncompliant, we can't very well arm wrestle them, can we?

If this stubborn bunch were a tiny percentage of all the diagnosed type 2 diabetics out there, we might have a non-amputated leg to stand on. But it's not a small group, by weight or by numbers. And even among the "good" patients, there can be serious gaps and lapses. We can throw in the towel and continue to absolve ourselves of responsibility, or we can take a look at how we as healthcare providers might be influencing--or even provoking--these less than satisfactory outcomes.

For starters, we need to change the amount of time patients are given to process such a life-changing diagnosis. Many patients will want to begin treatment immediately, and by all means, we should help them to do just that. But some will need a couple of weeks, or even a couple of months, to deal with their shock, anger, grief and resistance.

But isn't waiting dangerous?

For all but the handful who wake up in the hospital after a diabetic coma, the risk of delaying has to be measured against the drawbacks of pushing people who simply aren't ready to make momentous changes in their lives in the blink of an eye. Remember, we're talking type 2 diabetes here--a glacier rather than an avalanche. Some of these folks have been diabetic (without their knowledge) for years. Giving them enough time to become invested in their own health care could avert far lengthier periods of "noncompliance" down the road.

Assessing our patients to see if they're eager or reluctant is a crucial step in deciding what comes next. Those in the "teacher's pet" group will need little more than guidance, tools and affirmation as they follow the program laid out for them. But if treated prematurely, the heel-draggers will see guidance as imposition. Tools will feel like shackles. And there probably won't be a whole lot to affirm.

Why? Because they won't have had a chance to willingly board the good ship, "Sugar-free Lollipop."

Think about a cardiac patient who needs serious but non-emergent surgery. If we give him the diagnosis and then whisk him off to the OR a few hours later, without ever asking what he wants and without obtaining his consent, he could very well end up feeling assaulted. Should this resentment carry over into his recovery period, we can expect him to rebel every chance he gets. He'll complain about having to ambulate in the hallways, fuss about the tasteless new diet, and rail at having to take meds--some right now for the pain and others for the rest of his life. And who can blame him?

If unnecessarily rushing a patient into surgery seems absurd, why can't we see the similarities in our treatment of diabetics? We may not use the general anesthesia implied in the above scenario, but after we lay out the bad news, do we give the patient time to think about the information? Do we ask what his goals and priorities are? Do we present our resources and our knowledge as an offer with the clear recognition (both in us and in the patient) that he is free to walk out the door to seek a second opinion or even do nothing at all? Let's be honest--our sense of urgency on the patient's behalf hardly ever allows that to happen.

Speaking of second opinions, surgical patients are often encouraged (and sometimes required by insurance companies) to obtain a validating (or dissenting) assessment. Not so much with diabetes. After all, the numbers don't lie. And the treatment is pretty straightforward. So, why not skip that option and quick-march those rascally diabetics into treatment?

What do you think would happen if we went at a slightly slower pace? What if we did encourage a second opinion or at least a second appointment a month or so after the initial diagnosis so that the patient could work through the bad news and figure out what he wants? What if we sent him home with factual, non-emotional information about the systemic nature of the disease and explanations of the different treatment choices? We know that patients (and their family members) Google every ache and sniffle, so why not provide a list of trustworthy websites to help them see the big picture. We could even give him a couple of down-to-earth questionnaires to help him organize his priorities, identify areas of struggle, and zero in on where he wants to direct his energy.

When we jump the gun and bypass the patient's the need to internalize this knowledge, we communicate that we don't trust him with his own life. But if we give him solid information and offer our resources as consultants, we ditch the typical tug-of-war rope and make ourselves available to collaborate against a common foe.

If we demonstrate this much respect--nothing more than a potential surgical patient is routinely accorded--we'll appear more like allies rather than enemies to be lied to and avoided. The glucometer, the meds, the exercise and even the diet will look like ammunition to fight a disease rather than punishments from the mean medical folks.

Once we're willing to see our patients as people who need our help with their problem, they won't be our problem anymore.

what about cancer and HIV patients? and unwed mothers? while we're at it what about low income mothers? Why are you in nursing, and please don't ever be my nurse

...and people who smoke...

"As far as the threat of government not paying for healthcare-- I maintain that if the government got OUT of healthcare business completely -- monetarily and regulation wise- costs would go down. How many billions of dollars are spent in the bureaucracy of regulation enforcement? What on earth did people do before 1965 (medicaid)? What did seniors do before 1966 (medicare)??"

Costs are as high as they are not because of "government regulation" but rather because we live in a sue happy society whereby doctors have to cover their butts for everything. Government is a convenient whipping boy for a lot of things. What did people do before 1965 and 1966? A lot of them went untreated and died. Have you ever stopped to consider that much of the cost today that is medical related is the cost of bureaucracy and paperwork of our **multi-payer private insurance industry** foists on healthcare providers? They make lots of money also to spend on political lobbying. Billions.

I've read quite of few of these posts and the concerns and frustrations are all reasonable. When I was diagnosed with type 2 a few years back, I was told a little bit about the condition and how important it is to take my medicine and check my blood sugar. When I looked up articles about it I read pretty much the same thing. Then one day I found a book on the internet and bought it (The 30 Day Diabetes Cure) and was amazed to discover that using metformin to keep my numbers in check would not necessarily prevent diabetic complications, and at best would probably only delay it. This is common knowledge to health care providers, but not to the general public. Apparently, most providers are so used to patients not following through with needed lifestyle changes, they simply emphasize medication compliance. I was so shocked at what I found out, I changed my diet right then. On the third day of the diet I had lowered my blood sugar so much that I was off my metformin. I lost 10 pounds in 10 days (and ate very well, thank you)! I have lost over 20 pounds since August 1st and have gotten off 2 other medications as well. No more refined foods--no more sugar and white flour and rice--which btw are all ingredients in most of the so called diabetic cookbooks!!!! (Stevia is the best sweetener out there.) My grocery bill has actually come down since I quit buying all the chips, candy, sodas, etc.

Ok, here is my point----if more people understood what they are at risk for, even with perfect medication compliance, they might sit up and take notice. On the other hand, I took what I had learned to some friends of mine--a dear couple with type 1 and 2 diabetes. Neither one would change their ways, even when they saw me lose weight, eat delicious foods and get off my medication. So not everyone is going to change, and I imagine I will lose my good friends 20 years too soon. Their choice. I am going back to school to become a diabetic nurse educator, and I will be putting great emphasis on what can happen to us diabetics--medication or not.

I am not a fear monger, but this is something everyone should know. Too many people think that medication can keep them at a pre-diabetic level of health, especially since so much importance is placed on those blood sugar numbers. They are important, but those "good" numbers don't restore health!

I can see both opinions on this issue. I had a dear aunt who died March 2006 from complications of diabetes. There is a direct line from her non compliance to her death. By the time she decided to take her diabetes seriously she was already having amputations. You know how that goes. First a toe, then another toe, then half a foot, then the whole foot, etc., so on...

It is not that she didn't know what to do or hadn't seen what ignoring your diabetes does to a person. Diabetes is all in my family, so she had plenty of examples what happens when you manage your diabetes or not.

When someone is diagnosed with diabetes, especially Type 2, they are most likely grown and have been grown for years. I don't advocate babying them, but you do have to treat them as adults, even if they are making choices you don't agree with. Some people, before getting good diabetes education, think that they will be stuck on some sort of horrible celery and cottage cheese (or something similar) diet. A health care professional that is going to use a demanding tone in dealing with diabetes is probably not going to get far with most of their patients.

However there is a lot of responsibility that lies with the patient. As I have told many people, you can't be approaching your 40s, 50s, so on; eat like you did when you were a teenager, and expect to have the health you did in your 20s. It is just not reasonable. I think patients need to research information about their condition and be willing to make healthy choices and reasonable life changes. I have met some people who do not do this, and have the attitude that they are some how sticking it to their doctor/nurse. That is silly and immature. It is just like when I am in a class (I substitute teach as well as provide general care for an older relative (also a diabetic!)) and I have students who refuse to do their work for the day. They make a big announcement that they aren't doing their work as if it is going to affect me. I'd rather they make good grades, and I try to help them do that, but at the end of the day it is their choice and their grade. The school isn't going to take my diploma/degrees because a student that has been lazy all year continues to be lazy. At the end of the day the patient has to realize that this is their health and if they don't attend to it they are hurting themselves, often irreversable damage. I just don't think you have to brow beat the average person to get them to understand that.

Hi Caregiver 1977,

I agree. You don't have to browbeat most people to educate them. If you do have to browbeat them, you haven't educated them anyway. Some people just cannot or will not take instruction, even after watching a friend or family member have multiple strokes, swell up like a grape, lose a limb, go blind, be put on dialysis, etc.

As a former dialysis tech, Navy Corpsman, and now working in the VA, I have seen some non-compliance!! And as a former smoker, I've made some of the same horrible choices non-compliant patients have. I suppose at the end of the day, one just has to grow up and take responsibility for oneself. Some people will and some won't, but I know that I can only do what I am able to do and what the Lord allows. It is frustrating at times, which you know all about, being a caretaker! But, God didn't call me to change anyone--He just called me to help. It is a great relief to know that it is not my job to bring about the things only He can do! :)