As nurses we often complain about our careers. We vent about the long hours and lack of respect. One thing we don't seem to talk about is the differences nursing has made in us. I have changed a great deal over the years. I have grown wiser, and more patient. Some of the changes I have experienced can be attributed to the natural processes we all go through as we mature, but nursing has also changed me.
Some of the changes could be seen as negative. Before I became a nurse, I was quieter, and more refined. I never uttered a four letter word, or found crude humor amusing. And I am certianly less tolerant of lazy, self absorbed people. I am less sympathetic than I could be with people with minor complaints.
But more of the changes have been positive. Seeing others who suffer with chronic illness has made me more a more compassionate person. I realize how precious my health is, and am grateful that my family is healthy. Dealing with families who are in conflict has made me more appreciative of my own loving family. I have continued to learn and grow throughout my career. I am wiser, and have a broader perspective thanks to nursing. Nursing has given me a sense of accomplishment and pride, and boosted my self esteem. Being content with myself makes it easier for my family to love me too.
Nursing is a big part of my identity, and I do love what I do. Nursing is not just a job or career to me. It has helped shape who I am.
