Ever had a doc call the charge nurse on you? As in, call the unit and ask for the charge nurse and complain about you to him/her, without saying anything to you first.
Happened to me this morning and I'm still frustrated and can't sleep. And happened right at change of shift, so the doc ended up speaking to the day shift charge nurse who had no idea what had gone on the previous night. I called him 3 times during the night... once around 2, once around 4, and then once between 7:15-7:30. The first 2 calls- I NEEDED to talk with him. OK the third, now I know maybe I didn't... but still think I did and the day shift nurse receiving the pts I was calling about, did too.
He stated when he calls, that he feels like I'm trying to get something from him but he doesn't know what. And that I don't have my assessment ready for him when I call. ??? Each time I told him the pt's vital signs. The first time it was a b/p that had to be reported per orders. The second time, I needed an order for nausea medicine for a pt who threw up twice, quite a bit each time, within
Maybe it's my communication skills... do you think I should practice calling doctors, like roleplay or something, with someone? That sounds kind of silly. I do try to have things written out maybe that would help. He also told her to have me talk w/the charge nurse first before calling, and I did talk w/my charge nurse at length before those first two calls- this pt I talked with her about through the night b/c was just making me nervous and not right. Maybe I talked too fast? I tend to do that when I'm nervous and this doc makes me nervous. Maybe I gave too much information each time, should have been more specific. Though this pt did have a wide range of concerns through the night.
Sorry to be long winded. This seems like what I do most of the time now. I am irritated at him going over my head, along with putting the day shift charge nurse stuck in the middle, but also want to improve for the future so this doesn't happen again. Does anyone have any advice?