I try and be a pretty optimistic about my life and career, but as I go into the last couple weeks of my orientation as a new nurse I am having trouble keeping up my morale.
I know that new nursing can be hard. I have a number of nurses in my family and they all told me that it would be hard my first year, but I guess I never realized how hard until I'm actually living through it. It's a combination of things - I have had a full 5 patients every day since pretty much day two on the floor and a number of complicated patients. I realize that's how life as a nurse is, but every day I am left feeling overwhelmed and like I must have missed a hundred things. Many days most of my patients have medications every hour and though I'm running my butt off and trying to group med passes I still am missing things or ending up late on meds or whatnot. Not severely late, but late.
I have talked a bit about it with my preceptor and she says it will come with time, but I also feel like with running around as fast as I can to get everything done that I am not even having enough time to really interpret things as I want to. I need time to read through a number of notes at times to understand the plan of care and what has been done previously or what labs are really relevant and why they chose this med over that. I barely feel like I get a second here or there to do it. And don't even get me started on trying to get all my charting done - I have learned there are six ways to Sunday to chart each thing. I have always made at least some time for lunch plus bathroom breaks, but every time I sit down I can't get my mind off how far behind I will be if I don't get up on all the charting before my next post-op comes or whatnot.
I guess I'm wondering how you other new grads are dealing with this stress, and if other people are feeling really overwhelmed too? Or if any more experienced nurses have any strategies you could share with me? I am trying really hard not to take my stress home, but it's wearing on me. I dream about the things that I may have missed for days after shifts and I really am dreading going in to work. I often feel like I am stuck in the middle between all the care teams that work with a patient and that they say the plan is one thing without taking into account what is really going on with that patient and expect me to magically implement what they want. I am trying to get better about speaking up about this and advocating, but it's hard and it takes time, that I already feel like I can't seem to get enough of. I mean, since when does an hour actually only last ten minutes?
Sorry, this was a bit of a rant, but any suggestions or words of wisdom would be really helpful, because right now I am just feeling like I was not cut out for this and that this really is kind of a slap in the face from the reality of what nursing is like. Thanks.