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"Please, help my son! He is dying!" - a middle aged man screamed as he entered the emergency room. I looked up and saw one little boy age of nine in his arm with so much blood on his body. The blood is whooshing from the... Read More


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    Quote from pedsluv
    This is very inspirational story as a new grad nurse. I vow to learn as much as I can and be mentally prepared to handle any situation. My heart breaks hearing that the nurse couldn't "handle" blood. Are you serious, was she fired after this incident??!
    Kudos to you for finding another hospital and expanding your education.
    Nope.she not fired because i did not report to the management.She not helping me inside the resus room but i consider she helping me to manage the chaos outside..
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    Thank you for sharing your story. It was amazing. My unit takes trauma patients and everyday is a challenge dealing with the trauma patients.
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    You are an amazing inspiration to those of us who love nursing and believe that we are doing the job others cannot or will not do, because it needs to be done. Kudos and God bless your continuing education and excellence.
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    I admire your concerns regarding the event that took place with that patient but the worst thing that I read from your post was that "I quit from the hospital and looking for new job at well organized center" , this shows that you already gave up on the poor patients who comes to that center asking for help. If nothing changes with the way the center and it staff handles its cases, maybe it would have started from you and made a big difference and have set a good example to all nurses.
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    Quote from pagaaruga
    I admire your concerns regarding the event that took place with that patient but the worst thing that I read from your post was that "I quit from the hospital and looking for new job at well organized center" , this shows that you already gave up on the poor patients who comes to that center asking for help. If nothing changes with the way the center and it staff handles its cases, maybe it would have started from you and made a big difference and have set a good example to all nurses.
    Yeap.I quit-1 month earlier from stated contract .I voiced to get more staff on duty-ignored.Well,who am I? 6month RN to be heard by the over 10 years unchanged management? plus.I want to work at my own state.The other reason-I will keep it for my own.Yes,I do feel sorry and sympathy for those who really need urgent treatment that come to that center but I belive,if I'm not moving out from that center,I'm not doing what I'm doing now.Not being selfish.Not for being a heroine...but I have my own reason and vision .Thank you..
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    Your description of this event was so vivid I could see it in my mind while reading. The image of a desperate father helping to bag his own son literally took my breath away. You painted an equally vivid picture of your own desperation caused by the insurmountable obstacles you faced in trying to care for that child. I am impressed with the fact that this experience has motivated you to pursue more education and training in trauma. Not everyone can handle that type of work....as proved by the nurse who ran out of the room.

    I would just like to applaud your efforts and wish you the best of luck.
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    "Please, help my son! He is dying!" - a middle aged man screamed as he entered the emergency room.

    I looked up and saw one little boy age of nine in his arm with so much blood on his body. The blood is whooshing from the boy's body ... at this point, I'm not sure where it's coming from. Oh, God!

    I guided the father to resuscitation room or red zone. Alerted the doctor and got help from ward's staff. Gave patient oxygen and set up all the cardiac monitor and blood pressure cuff. While doing everything I realize that there was a huge, deep, and open trauma on his back at the scapula region. I can see through it.

    I instructed the hospital assistant to help me press the wound to stop the bleeding. As I helped the doctor in assisting him in intubation. At this point, I thought only a miracle can stop the bleeding. A few minutes felt like hours - "Where is the other staff?"

    "Please I need help! I need someone to set the IV cannula! This boy is losing so much blood!" After successful intubation, I gave chest compression while the father was helping in giving manual ventilation through bag ventilation mask - with a lot of tears in his eyes while the doctor is trying to get vein for IV. An RN arrived, she stepped back after seeing so much blood. "Sorry, I can't stand to see all the blood." I was shocked when the words came out from her mouth.

    "Oh, My God! Help me please. Get me someone else!"

    Being new RN grad and working in this small center makes me have to work on myself really hard with a little experience. On that day, I'm working afternoon shift with two hospital assistant and one medical officer and it's on a holiday! I'm putting all my knowledge and what I learn through the three years of nursing school and clinical.

    The center that hired me is small but have a BIG sign of EMERGENCY 24 HOURS outside of the building with a bright light and you can saw it from 1000 meter far but the facilities and staffing is poor. That condition put my career and other patient's life in danger.

    I just graduated 8 month ago from nursing school and have only 6 months of working experience and they put me as in charge RN all by my own with one doctor and a hospital assistant who doesn't even know how to take blood pressure.

    This boy could have been saved if a proper management, fluid resuscitation, and controlling the bleeding by binding and compressing the wound. When the doctor gave instructions to stop the resuscitation I couldn't hold my tears.

    Now, after four years in nursing I never forget what happened on that day. I still think about the RN who chose not enter the resuscitation room cause of the bloody body. I remember blaming the hospital management for their poor management and staffing. I even blamed myself for the lack of knowledge and experience I had. I learned from his father that his son was hit by a car while cycling in their resident area and that day was the boy's birthday.

    Being a nurse and by choosing this career, we must be aware that we will be responsible for saving people. We need to accept that seeing blood is routine. Please don't sacrifice another person's life by choosing this career if you do not have the stomach for it.

    For those newly graduated RN, you will be facing 1001 kind of cases and incident through your career. Some will make you feel inadequate. Never give up. It's just another way for you to learn - to become a great nurse. Go on and never stop learning!

    I quit from the hospital and looking for new job at well organized center. Now, I'm in the middle of taking my Advance Emergency Medical Trauma Care certification and I never forget the incident that happen on that day. From that day, I promised myself to become the best nurse that I can be. A nurse who can handle any emergency conditions and save lives.
    What happened to you was quite an experience....I have three sons who are all so dear to me...I could just imagine the father's agony when nothing else could be done..but for that RN I wonder how she had graduated from whichever nursing school she had attended...today some go for employment and the money to put in the pockets but the real interest and passion for nursing is not really there..which is so sad since our founder Florence Nightingale went through worse that what we face today...but then we live in a changed world but we hope that the RN had learned a lesson from what had happened...as for you my dear friend..hang on tight.....
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    Your story gave me chills. I will challenge myself.
    Thank you
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    Wow. I admire you. I am beginning nursing school in January and I promise I will never do that to any patient. You're story is very humbling. Wow


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