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So we all work with doctors that i'm sure we have questioned their judgement from time to time. And we all probably work with that doctor that we would never have as a doctor for ourselves. So what do you say when the patients ask your opinion of the docs?
if its a doc i like i will say so.
if its one i dont like (and really, i do like most of them) it dependson the question. if it is "do you like dr. x?" i'll say "well, he's your doctor, it matters what you think, not what i think" or such.
try to find out why they are asking. if they dont like their doctor and want to gripe about him/her, i always say that if you dont like your doctor you aren't married to htem and are perfectly welcome to change. i would never let a patient know i thought poorly of a doctor. that reflects poorly on me.
same for another nurse.
Also, keep in mind that a Doc that irritates the heck out of you might be the perfect match for some other particular personality type. That's what makes our wonderful world go around.....we're all different. I have had patient's absolutely rave about docs who I wouldn't let touch me with a ten foot pole! Somehow, they must have clicked...and who am I to judge?
On the other hand, if someone is asking you your opinion about a particular doc, they must be having some type of second thoughts or doubts about their choice. In this case, as everyone stated above, encourage the patient to obtain a second opinion.
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This is pretty much what I say and leave it at that.....