I've been a nurse for the past 7 years and can't imagine doing it much more. The trouble is am not sure what's to become of me. I'm an oncology nurse who on a good day loves to take care of pts. actively living and dying of cancer. The trouble is between my co-workers being insensitive and management treating me like i'm just a body to fill their staffing needs, I'm feeling lost and depressed and am very rarely having a good day. I look at the want-ads for other jobs and few and far between other me half of what I now make. BTW I live in IA where the last time I checked led the nation in lowest nursing salaries. What do others do when they feel burnt out and need of change. A change in depts. or locations just doesn't make my heart pitter patter. A few years ago, I started taking computer science classes. Unfort. I didn't have the time and now energy to complete my degree. It's hard to write programs when I come home from work crying. I cry alot and very little pertains to patients dying. I went into nursing so I could feel wanted. These days I feel invisible. When I try to talk to my nurse manager about my frustrations, she asks me if I have talked to the EAP person (yes I have). There's more to the story, but right now its just too painful to go into. Please help me, even if its just a caring eye on the other end of these words. --- R