4th time failed NCLEX PN

[PN2B2008]

Hi all, its been 3 years since i graduated from VN school and up to this date i have not pass my NCLEX PN, sometimes i ask myself why I always end up having a bad luck in life:cry:, i feel so stupid. First of all let me tell you a story after i graduated in 2006 i was waiting for my ATT to arrived and then i found out that i am missing some credits thats why the board could not send me the ATT, anyway it took about 5 certified mails back in fort to the CA board and finally my ATT arrived and its been a year since i graduated. At that point my mind was not on track anymore, i attended a review class which cost me a lot of money and still did not help me when i took it the first time, i had all categories Near passing , then the second and 3rd time i studied saunders book and cd only did not pass again, then on my 4th time i focus myself on studying and enroll in the learningext-NCSBN. I was getting a 70 - 95% on the exam and still i got my result 2 days before my bday:sniff: I FAILED AGAIN, i was heartbroken. My husband and his family thinks that I am a failure and stupid, they even said they are tired of waiting for me to be successful and i should give up already. All my life i always tell myself to never give up and i know someday i will succeed in my career, i never thought that nursing will be a big burden to carry and yet here i am still fighting. I hoped someday i can post that I pass. Sorry for the long thread, i just need someone to talk too, its very depressing right now to me.

**I would like to ask if anyone failed the 4th time and pass the 5th time to give me some advice, what have books and strategy did you use, it will be a big help, thank you.

[Prado]

I know lot of students here who failed 7th times........

DOnt worry u r not alone....Best of luck......

Life is like that sometime happy days sometime bad days.........

u r going through bad days at this moment...but soon God will open lot of door for u.......

[PN2B2008]

Thank you Prado.

[fritzhatt]

hi! first of all, cheer up:nurse:... i failed my 1st attemp. i felt the same thing :idea:but i still dream and hope that i will eventually pass,hopefully the 2nd time, if not, take again... keep hoping, i'll do the same thing...

[llltapp]

The only advice I have for you right now, is to ask yourself who taught you that you were not "good enough" and worthy enough to be treated with love and respect by the man you are married to? You need to work on your opinion of yourself and your boundaries with your loved ones. Don't ever allow someone else to make you "feel" bad. They can't make you feel anything you don't allow them to.

When you get some confidence, stop allowing people to talk to you like your crap, THEN you will fly through this test. You are in a victim role with your hubby and his family. Stop listening to their negative crap. Remember:

There are no victims only volunteers :)

Good luck , you DERSERVE it.

[caliotter3]

Hope that you are getting ready to take it again and be successful. Good luck.