Talking to Physicians

[cluv2nurse]

Hi, I am just starting as a RN in an ICU. For some reason I feel very inferior to other nurses and physicians as a new grad and I have trouble talking to them. How do I boost my confidence to be more outgoing instead of quiet and how do I talk to them easier?

[cluv2nurse]

I want to think all of you for your posts. It really helped.

[barlowjb]

Hi: As a nurse in the trenches for 15 years i have some sage advice for you: there will be times when you might have to turn to a doctor and say "you know, it would help if you would listen to what i have to say". I have actually had to tell physicians not to berate me in front of other staff, and that if they have a problem with me take it to a private environment, be professional and don't yell at me to get your point across.

You will boost your confidence as you gain skills and sensitivity while caring for your vulnerable patients, for they are at your mercy.

In order to be more outgoing don't be afraid to approach someone and say " Hi, i am nurse happy gal', and extend your hand". Touch is so important. And maintain a professional demeanor and keep a sense of humor. Also if someone-- a nurse, unit clerk, cna, whatever, is relaying a story about their pet, remodeling of their home, or type of food they like, chime on in and start talking. They will instantly like you if you find common ground and if you find this common ground, you will have allies. This is how i became friends with nearly everyone i worked with---except management, LOL!

You've asked a great question. You will become a psychologist of sorts if you study people before, during, and after speaking; and try to anticipate the needs of others before others do---especially for the MD and the patient, whomever. When you satisfy a need such as providing the pain med before requested or hand the physician the lab work before he yells for it, you will see miraculous things happen, and your confidence and well-being will flood your heart with a nearly unbearable sense of purpose and duty to mandkind. Good luck to you --dear fledgling nurse. ZEE pepeeell expeeert.

AMEN!!!