Should I just give it up?/Background little shaky

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Back in 2007 I pleaded guilty to stealing. It was a misdemeanor. I had four kids and my husband was overseas. They had no proof, only another employees word against mine and I felt intimidated so I signed a confession (dummy) and agreed to six months probation and restitution. It was fifty dollars you guys....

Any way, it's biting me in the butt. I feel so stupid. Im having trouble getting my AZ DPS Fingerprint card. Ive wanted to be a nurse my entire life and I feel like all doors are being closed in my face. I completed my CNA and cant even get a job doing that. I know they are gonna deny my fingerprint card but Ive heard that I can appeal it and try to get one. Is it worth it? B/c from what Im hearing, when a job does a background check they can still not hire you. I feel like a dumb orifice. Any advice? Anyone?

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I am in a similar yet different situation. I have a municipal violation for retail theft, (as well as a DUI and marijuana conviction from 10 years back). I am a RN, BSN in the state of WI. So I was given my license, but am having problems finding a job. I actually was hired at a LTC facility. And began work last week, but it's been a horrible experience all around, and the place is not good. So I am quitting. I would rather give up my $23 an hour to serve tables in the meantime than be affiliated with poor care (via the facility reputation).

It's really hard to get into a hospital, or anywhere. This was the first bite I had after applying. I've had a few interviews, but all send the default email or letter in the mail saying they've "gone with someone more qualified". I'm keeping up with it for awhile longer. I love nursing. And this is what I want to do. Although, if I can't get a chance somewhere (other than this current hell hole) I will have to try to think about other options of employment to fund my $770/mo student loans. To think I racked up $70K in student loan debt only to NOT be able to do what I worked so hard to learn breaks my heart. And has me very depressed actually. So I understand how you must be feeling.

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Thanks so much for responding. I'm really considering talking to a lawyer and getting the conviction overturned. I really am.

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I don't want to discourage you from doing that. But depending what state you're in. It may not be an option. For instance. In WI, you can get some felonies overturned I believe 10 years after or something. However, to do that, the governer has to agree to overturn it. And governers don't typically DO that, because they don't want to appear soft on crime. So you could end up paying all that money to a lawyer, only to have nothing happen.

I have 2 friends who are dating lawyers, and they both asked them, both told me that with MISDEMEANORS or MUNICIPAL VIOLATIONS (which is what i have) you can NOT get them overturned. Isn't that ridiculous?!?!??!

It makes no sense, but that's the law. So check. But even if you CAN, there is no guarantee that it will happen. Just know that we may be in for the long haul. Keep trying.

And trust. I KNOW how depressing and frustrating this can be. I am at the same breaking point you are I'm sure.

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Don't give up on your dream. If this is what you desire to do then I would propose that you do whatever it takes to achieve it. Giving up is the easy route to be a nurse takes perseverance. People make mistakes. Just make sure you are totally honest. I heard from other nurses that have transferred from other states say that Texas is very strict. So, if your not coming to texas you might be ok. What's the worse that can happen?

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the worse that can happen is racking up thousands in student loans for a career that doesn't materialize - perhaps impacting friends, family, and loan companies that are bankrolling your dreams.

I understand the comments are well intentioned, and perseverance is key, but a cold hard look at the situation and some good professional advice would be in order.

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