alcoholic family member - page 2

While having family members with this issue and an ex hubby I am very upset that my dtr/22 is having legal problems (bad ones) from this illness. I have done everything in my power to help her,... Read More

  1. by   jnette
    ((((HUGS)))) Renerian.

    It is all they say above. Worked in chem. dependency for several years, and believe me, those afflicted hate themselves more than those whom they hurt.

    It's a long and never ending road. But you need to look out for YOU... your daughter must take responsibility for herself.. she will learn this hopefully sooner than later.

    Do not enable her. Love her unconditionally, but do not enable her in any way, shape, or form. Be there for her, and keep communication lines open, but do not enable ! Can't stress that enough.
  2. by   renerian
    That seems to be the biggie I hear from other people with more experience in this area.

    Thanks for caring,