Nursing job and time off-How flexible?

[Naoko2001]

I am thinking about enrolling with a LPN program at a local community college. Before I do that, I would like to hear some opinions about how flexible nursing jobs are in general in terms of taking some time off. The reason why I am asking this question is that I am from Japan and might have to go back home and take care of my elderly mother time to time - every few month or so for about a few weeks at a time. I was wondering if it is better to just obtain a CNA license instead of LPN, and apply for temp jobs I will really like to become a LPN nurse, but I need a lot of flexibility with my job to take care of my mother. Also, I am in my 40's, I was wondering if it is difficult to obtain a job with my age in the field of nursing. I would appreciate any feedbacks from you!!!

[Naoko2001]

MedSurg32RN,

Thanks again with your feedback. Attending LPN classes part-time while working as a CNA sounds like a very good idea. I am glad I found this web forum, and I really appreciate your help.

[kintaro]

Hi Naoko,

I just felt urgent to reply your thread because your situation sounds exactly like mine. I am also from Japan living in Canada. I have both of my parents living in Japan and my younger sister is looking after them. Yes. It is very hard. I feel guilty all the time not being there when they need me. I am also in my 40s and am a second year nursing student. Like other people say, age isn't a issue. I found language barrier is more the problem than anything else. The amount of time off you are thinking may not be realistic, but the time off for a few weeks or a month in a year may be. I have a friend who does that every year. As a student, I usually go to see my family once a year, about a month (that's all I can afford). While I am there, I try to spend almost 100% of my time with them, which gives my sister a month break. I don't think it is fair for her, but that's all I can do. Luckily for me, my sister is very understanding.

We can only do so much. Don't strain yourself. By the way, I am enjoying my schooling. Nursing isn't easy but it's worth it. Hope you can find the way to make your dream come true.

Best wishes.