New grad so discouraged.

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Ok-- so I'm not really ancient but I'm not 20 either.. more like 42 & a new nursing grad. I finally got the only job offered to me in LTC part-time. All the other people from my nursing class (who wanted) are working in hospital med-surge atmospheres, except me!! It seems as if I can't nab a hospital position to save my butt! I have put in probably 100 apps online & done all the follow-ups possible...still with no avail. I am enjoying my LTC job but just don't feel I am learning what I wanted that can happen on a med-surge unit. I am very discouraged. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong & feel I'm losing time not getting into a hospital. I had no experience except nursing school & was a stay at home mom for 13 yrs before that & my age could be working against me. Am I destined to stay in LTC? I have been reading that LTC nurses are kinda blackballed from hospitals due to their lack of knowledge....now I'm freaking out & am even more desperate to get out. What am I doing wrong!!! (I am a hard worker & have had nothing but great reviews from my superiors in the LTC facility for the short time I have been there -- 5 wks.) Not sure how to keep my chin up & drive going to get what I need out of career.

I'm sorry I have no advice. Same boat here. My last bit of hope was thinking "ok, so I get my BSN, then MSN (specialize in an area) and THEN I'd be marketable. But no. To even get in these MSN programs I want, they require 1, 2, 3 years SPECIALIZED experience. For example, to get into a pediatric nurse practition program, they want 2-3 years pediatric hospital experience. To get a pediatric job in a hospital, they normally want at least med surg experience. To get med surg experience..... well, who the hell knows how to get med surg experience in this economy and where I live (Chicagoland). I thought the point of attending (going with my original example here) to a pediatric nurse practioner program was to learn pediatrics so you can work as a pediatric nurse in a hospital (or elsewhere)!!! But no, they expect you to already be a pediatric nurse. I feel that the nursing field is going to crumble in about 30 years when all these nurses who have experience are retiring. There wont be anybody to replace them because we never got the chance to train to take their place! I don't see the economy getting better enough to be able to hire more nurses on a unit (like 1 nurse:4 patients) making room for new grads. Very pessimistic and negative post, I know. Actually, you wouldn't know it by the way I sound, but I'm excited I finally got a job offer yesterday. LTC. One of the units (Alzheimers) has 60 residents and ONE RN at night. We do our best and families just yell at us and threaten to sue, like its OUR fault there aren't enough nurses to care for all the residents.

And oh my gosh, to top it off.... STOP ADVERTISING HEALTHCARE DEGREES!!!! Everywhere you look, TV, internet ads, its "become a nurse, become a medical assistant." (I do realize the irony in that statement regarding my "become a nurse" avatar LOL, but hey, that's for the Navy)They don't tell you the jobs aren't there. Don't get me wrong. If you have a passion for healthcare, no matter the economy, I would NEVER say don't do it. But all these places trying to recruit people into healthcare who haven't even thought of it, who just would go into it for the money they THINK they would make.... oh I just need to stop now. Ok care plan for myself

Assessment: frustration, resentment, low self esteem

Intervention: cuddle with my hubby

Rationale: He's awesome and relaxes me

Outcome: We'll see : )

Hey I was 37 when I graduated with my BSN and I was very lucky to get a job in an ICU. What I what I found that helped was utilizing all my preceptors in the hospitals I did my clinicals. Think back and contact everyone of them you had a rapport with and see if they know of positions available and hiring managers names, ask them to write a letter of recommendation and then apply with that attached. That is exactly what I did. Our program also had us put together a professional portfolio to take to interview which is impressive to hiring managers. Finally a friend of mine graduated and worked in a nursing home for over 6 months and now is at a hospital and on an oncology unit which she loves. Hang in there, it'll get better.

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