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Hey everyone,
I'm in my 3rd semester of ADN school and graduate in May 2010. I've been thinking about joining the reserves after I graduate but am unsure of which branch. I spoke w/ an instructor that is retired Army and she told me to go Air Force or Navy although I'm still keeping all options open. I want to join the reserves so I can use the GI Bill to pursue my BSN. In your opinion would it benefit me to have work experience prior to going into the reserves or does it not matter? I'm just worried about having a large gap from when I graduate and get licensed until the time I start working. I know I need to talk to a healthcare recruiter. If anyone has ANY advice it would be greatly appreciated!!!
bluemorningglory
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Originally Posted by bluemorningglory
Are you basing this off of personal experience?
Yes and no. My ex dh had a college degree and enlisted (long story there but a direct commission was not in the cards). I was married to him for eight years of that enlistment and I base my opinion on what I saw with him, his peers, my friends and their DHs,etc.
This is jmho but I believe that the officer side is a lot nicer(My sister is an officer and I have been her guest on post). While many of our enlisted troops do have formal educations, the majority of them do not. Although we don't like to admit it in our PC society, there is a difference between educated folks and non-educated folks. And there is definitely a difference in the way enlisted/officers are treated.
My ex had a very hard time relating to his peers. He was more educated and more worldly. I am not saying that he was a better person..he was just at a different place in his life. College degrees come in as an E4 and most E4s are 19 and hanging out at the club.
As a spouse, I felt overlooked and out of the loop. O wives get all sorts of networking opps, invitations to coffees,etc. And while it did not happen all of the time, there were times when I know for a fact o wives were treated better than e wives. If I were married, I would do everything in my power to make sure that my spouse was as comfortable as possible.
I saw my enlisted ex work his tail off. Sadly, I often saw him performing menial duties(cleaning an office, emptying trash,painting a room). But that is "enlisted". It is the way of the military. Some people are happy with that and just move through the ranks until they hit E5(NCO) and get a little clout. Others go Green to Gold.And still others get out entirely.
Personally, if I had a degree of any kind (ADN RN or BSN), I would want more. I would want the rank and the privileges that go with it. But that's me. I know some awesome and competent soldiers who are happy on the enlisted side....Anyway, that is my longwinded response. Sorry:)