I can't make it out of first semester, advice?

[Nurse Beth, MSN]

Happy holidays to you as well!

I'm sorry to hear you're feeling stuck. Nursing school can be incredibly demanding, especially when life circumstances make everything feel harder. But I think it's essential to step back and give yourself some credit—what you're going through is challenging, and feeling overwhelmed is okay.

Here are some pieces of advice for this situation.

• Give yourself grace. Life sometimes throws curveballs that are hard to deal with, especially when you're juggling a rigorous program. Remember that failing a semester or not completing it on time doesn't mean failing at your dream or potential. No doesn't always mean no. It can mean not now. It's just a setback. This is a tough time, but it doesn't define you or your future.
• Reflect on your why. Take a moment to revisit why you want to be a nurse in the first place. Your passion for nursing is still there, even if it's hard to see. Reflecting on the core reason you started this journey can motivate you to push through tough times, or help you decide if an LPN track might be a better fit right now.
• Talk to an academic advisor or counselor. Nursing schools often have support systems in place for students going through difficult times. If you haven't, consider discussing your situation with an academic advisor or counselor. They might be able to offer resources, extra tutoring, or even special accommodations that could help you manage the coursework. Sometimes, schools can offer a leave of absence so you don't lose any credits or progress when life hits hard. You may be able to get a Withdraw or other favorable status.
• Consider the possibility of pursuing the LPN route. I'm uncertain whether this is truly an LPN versus RN issue or if switching programs would be the answer. If you're inclined to go for your LPN, that's perfectly fine. However, keep in mind that although the program duration is shorter, it may not be easier. You have already completed the RN science prerequisites, which are more challenging than those for the LPN.

• Allow yourself to take a pause. Given your current circumstances, you might need a break to gain perspective. It's perfectly fine to step away for a while. Taking a brief break can lead to a stronger, more focused return. Whether you're dealing with personal challenges or need mental space, remember that you don't have to push through if you feel burnt out. 

• Break down your goals. If you decide to stay in nursing school, try breaking down your goals into smaller, more manageable tasks. Sometimes, nursing school feels like an overwhelming mountain to climb, but tackling it step by step might feel a little more manageable. Maybe focusing on one assignment at a time or one week at a time will help you find some breathing room.
• Self-care. Don't neglect your well-being. Stress, burnout, and physical exhaustion can make everything feel harder. Prioritize your health—get enough sleep, eat well, and incorporate relaxation or stress-relief practice into your day. Sometimes, taking a little time for yourself can help restore some of the mental clarity you need to move forward.
• Seek support. Talk to friends, family, and loved ones who you trust. It helps to talk out loud about your issues and hear the words. Plus, those who love you and know you best may be able to offer just the insight you need right now.

Ultimately, the decision to continue with your RN program or pursue your LPN is deeply personal. But it's a big decision with future ramifications, and the best thing may be to take a break.

You've made it this far—and that's no small feat! Whatever you choose to do, make sure it feels right for you, and don't hesitate to reach out for support when you need it. You've got this, even if it feels like a long road ahead.

Very best wishes,

Nurse Beth