How do Nurses find trusted, flexible childcare for shift work?

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Nursing school is a serious challenge for most everyone. After reading so, so many posts here about the tough issues mothers deal with, my heart goes out to the moma's challenges I read about . I really, reallllly don't understand how seemingly there are so many single moms and/or even married moms who do shift work in Nursing.

Aside from the issue of getting enough rest during the day -- does everyone have grandparents nearby or etc -- HOW do you find trusted care for your children while you work afternoon or mid shifts??? Obviously those who are married or have significant others who work an opposite shift - not a rosy scenario for the relationship lol, but at least they can swap caring for their children.

I know in larger metro areas there are companies that provide overnight daycare and even some daycare homes do it. However, I have never seen it advertised in my city or any surrounding towns either. I guess there must be word-of-mouth referrals here and there. But to have to depend on that boggles my mind especially if you have more than one child and in light of the strict call off guidelines full time positions at LTC's and/or hospitals have in place.

I live in a town of 80-thousand-ish; can't imagine how people here deal with it. It would be the bane of my existence to continually worry about where/who/when for childcare AND try to manage NS, let alone shiftwork later.

Hmm...maybe that is how I could work part-time through NS. *Lightbulb moment, and hugs to Nurse moms.

Thanks everyone - so many great people here who take the time to share info and experiences. Yup, I think it is going to be more than a little complex for her to do this, though she is no stranger to working hard. I admire her.

For myself, my children are older, my Significant Other is super supportive and we have family as well as friends not far away.

What I don't see is how Nurses whose children are in sports etc figure that out. When mine were younger and involved in activities/clubs/lessons I was able to be with them as needed and later I worked straight days, weekends off.

How would you get just one 9 year old to and from football - practices, away games, regular home games, etc etc. if you have to work three 12's?? Wouldn't you be gone when they need to get ready for school and then they get home from school by 3 pm-ish and you still wouldn't be home if you were working three 12's of a day schedule. The other two shifts would put you home for one end or the other, but not available for taking them to practices etc. And what about that first six months to a year when its common to have to put some extra time in for charting etc til you get experience and get more efficient and proficient at your job. Even if you have just two children and they are only involved in one sport each or after school activity, it could take some extraordinarily creative plan B's, C's and Z's .

Specializes in LTC, Psych, M/S.

Nothing like reviving a 3 year old thread but I'm really struggling with finding childcare for 9 and 5 year olds and wondering about how to get them into extracurricular activities when I do not have a set schedule.

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