How was your first year in nursing?

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Specializes in Family medicine, Cardiology, Spinal Cord Injury.

So I've been reading the 1st year in nursing forum in the general forums.

For the most part, I've only seen posts by the female nurses about how tough it is, or how emotionally stressful it is.

How was it for you guys out there?

I'm a new grad still hoping to land a job and just wanted to see if the guys experience their first year the same way the girls do.

Specializes in Nursing Informatics, E.R., med surg, ENT.

it's similiar exerience to what the girls went through but i think the difference in my situation has a lot to do with more of personality type than gender. my first year is about to end as we speak and I have went through what i would term as "transitional" periods. The first transition is realizing that you are a licensed "RN" and with it comes responsibilities. The second was the orientation era when I was learning so many new things not taught in nursing school. I felt the rush of information in my head and hopeully remember everything. Third was my first major nursing procedure performed -with a doctor's order of course. it was tough because i was in an emergent and fluid environment and performed the tasks as if I was doing them for years, though it was my first attempt since nursing school. Fourth would be the "oh my G__, I'm a charge nurse?" new responsibilities and twice the feeling of dread. Yes all the emotions were there in all the transitions I went through such as feelings of being the dumbest nurse around, fear, anxiety, name it. But as I mentioned in another posting, that sense of fear will help make you a safe and excellent nurse. I never want to be complacent or miss anything critical that may harm the people in my charge.

Going back to the personality type, I think that in my case, I am one of those people who just cannot "give up" that easily without a fight. I am very determined especially if I get into situations that seemingly are at odds with what I am trying to accomplish. I view the difficulties experienced as challenges that will be eventually be met and overcome.

Once you begin working as a nurse, you will know best how to deal with the strsses that will come with it. We all experience things differently through the filters of our own perceptions, values, and backgrounds.

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