Blowing the Curve and Classmate Hostility (Long)

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One of my instructors usually doesn't curve grades, but if the class doesn't do very well, she'll throw a few extra points in. The problem is when enough students, like myself, do well enough that the instructor feels she can't justify a curve, which happens more often than not.

I've gotten used to people complaining about it, and I don't care that much anymore about the nasty remarks. But I can't figure what they expect us to do? Bomb on the test so they can make a better grade?

The weird thing is, right before the test, a lot of these people ask me to explain certain things. I'm always happy to help and have even given out my phone number to call if they get stuck on something. But they never call. They only ask at the last minute right before the test when it's not going to do much good.

Then they complain that it's the teachers fault, that she didn't explain this or that properly, etc. Although she is actually being generous in offering curve points to begin with, since the vast majority of instructors don't do that.

One girl, who also asked for help right before the test, was very upset when the grades were posted afterward, since she didn't do very well. So, I said, "Look, why don't you call me, and maybe I can help you for next time."

Maybe it was pride or something, but she basically told me to go to hell, although in more colorful language than this board will allow to be posted. I guess I shouldn't have offered to help in the first place, or maybe I phrased it the wrong way although I certainly was trying to be sensitive, but it's really weird. Maybe she was upset because I blew the curve, but I was, afterall, only trying to help.

I guess I just don't understand.

:p

Yes, there's book smarts and life smarts. The lucky among us have a little of both. I went to nursing school with two girls who seemed to breeze through the book stuff, no problem, blew the curves all the time, they were the eye-rollers in the class. But when we hit the floor, they hit a wall. It was weird but interesting to watch. The slackers won't make it, some of the whiners will inspite of themselves. And 10 years from now, none of this will matter to any of you, that's what's neat about finally getting out and into the real world. Good luck to everyone. I'm studying on line and don't miss the classroom at all. It's nice and quiet here. :rotfl:

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How about the student who is flunking med/surg and after the final goes into the instructor's office demanding to see their prior tests, only to find two extra points that the teacher missed, and still needing one point to pass (to go on to clinicals) and the teacher gave the student the point. not fair. :angryfire

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How about the student who is flunking med/surg and after the final goes into the instructor's office demanding to see their prior tests, only to find two extra points that the teacher missed, and still needing one point to pass (to go on to clinicals) and the teacher gave the student the point. not fair. :angryfire

Dood, are you in my class? I'm with ya on that one. Or the instructor who lets slip after 97% of the class witches & whines, that she was TOLD to pass several students who by all rights should have been out on their ears (not even TRYING to submit all assignments - - come ON, people!). Ugh. The politics & drama of nursing school are aggravating, fersher. :uhoh3:

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when we hit the floor, they hit a wall. It was weird but interesting to watch
Yep. I already know that I've got the book smarts. The people skills are pretty close at hand, too. They need a little work, but they're fair. It's the common sense I need help with. I have gotten better though. I still have to remind myself of some things that other people just seem to know automatically.

Hey, I confess to being a non-curve blower. I usually score in the average range, but I do not despise the curve blowers, I admire them. No sense in hurting your grade because people like me don't study as much as they should. More power to ya!

Specializes in home health, LTC, assisted living.
I have always been extremely greatful that the CC I attended had (and still has) a NO CURVE grading policy.

The letter grade directly related to the score with no + or - letter grades:

A= 90-100

B= 80-89

C= 70-79

D= 60-69

F= 59 & below

Wow, At my school 80% is a "C" :uhoh21:

I'm there with the curve blowers too :devil:.

That being said, most of the whiners and complainers are those that can always find an excuse not to study or put in the effort required, with a few notable exceptions. I am especially p.o.'d at several girls in my class that complain non-stop about their grades (they are near failing). BUT.....they are able to have enough time to 'go out' every Friday and Saturday night. And tell the class of their exploits ad nauseum. Then, they find my study group with their special panic radar when they need notes from the numerous days in class they have missed. Believe me, I am getting good at politely saying 'no'. I am a kind person, but people are sorely mistaken if they confuse my kindness as their own personal doormat.

In the end they are cheating themselves since they are well on their way from being kicked from the program when they all have just a year to go. I will never understand why people will do that when they have worked so hard to get into the program in the first place. /boggle

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