WHY do nurses apologize for doing their jobs?

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Little bit of a rant about a particular pet peeve of mine here. I was taught years ago in nursing school--don't apologize to the doctor for calling him/her. So many times I hear other nurses, especially new grads, do this, and it makes me just cringe! Who told them they need to apologize for doing their jobs and taking care of their patients? It just brings down the entire profession, in my view. We are not making social calls when we call the doctors, we are notifying them of things that we, in our professional, trained opinion, feel they need to know in order so that they can do their jobs correctly as well and, most importantly, to protect the well being of the patient. It just irks the heck out of me!

I so agree, Esme. Nothing wrong with using some manners!

I have had pleanty of doctors apologize to me, too, when they tell me what they have just ordered for a paitent. I'm sure they're not really sorry, as it is my job, but acknowledging that I may be having a bad night, or that some elements of patient care just aren't very pleasant.

There is a dr. where I work who says "You're going to kill me but I left a lot of orders, I'm really sorry."

It is my job to deal with those orders, and it is the dr's. job to write those orders, but it is so nice to have someone acknowledge that it's a pain -- for both of us. Compare that to the dr. who writes a bunch of orders and then goes flying out the door without even caring or looking back.

A nice gesture goes a long way.

Specializes in General Internal Medicine, ICU.

Like others have said, saying "I'm sorry" to doctors when you're calling them isn't you apologizing for doing YOUR job, you're apologizing for disturbing them at odd hours, when they've got their hands on 10 different tasks, or when they're running a clinic. You're ismply showing courtesy. One particular day I had to call the same doctor many times for different things for his patients, and after a few times, I started off with "Hi Dr.________, sorry to phone you yet again...". He took it well and we had a laugh over the fact that all of his patients presented problems and issues AFTER he made rounds that day. I wasn't apologizing for being a RN and looking after the patients, I was merely being polite to the doctor.

Specializes in Ambulatory Surgery, Ophthalmology, Tele.
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I once bought a big bird alarm clock for a particular MD who would shout every time he was awakened at night "Do You Know What Time It Is?" I told him it was so that he would always know what time it is. :lol2:

There is NO shame is trying to diffuse irritation, frustration or anger with a little politeness, manners or humor. As long as I get the orders I need.:smokin:[/quote

Big Bird alarm clock!! I love it!!! :yeah:]

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