Employee Complaint

Nurses General Nursing

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So I've been an RN for close to 2 years now and while the hospital I'm working at has a lot of faults, I genuinely like my coworkers and enjoy working with them. I get along with everyone and I always try my best to stay positive and helpful. I've always prided myself on never bringing a sour attitude to work. Thats why I was shocked and very surprised when the director of my unit contacted me stating that she had received a complaint concerning my attitude at work.

The complaint hadn't even came from one of my fellow nursing coworkers, it had come from a phlebotomist. I was very upset by this because the phlebotomist who had complained was someone I had held in high regard and liked. She was always very cheerful and likable and I always initiated conversation with her since she was easy to approach with her bubbly personality. She was the very last person I had expected to complain about me so it sort of felt like a betrayal.

The complaint itself was something so trivial it felt unjust. She had complained that when she asked me to draw from a PICC line that I had presented myself as annoyed and irritated and asked rude questions. I remember that day clearly and while it was busy, I didn't mind drawing from a PICC line. It was my patient after all. She was mostly offended when I asked why phlebotomists at our hospital weren't allow to draw from PICC lines and if other Phlebotomists at other hospitals could do it. Having never worked at another hospital I was genuinely curious regarding our hospital policies. She didn't seem to take offense and even answered me cheerfully stating that they weren't even allowed to carry NS flushes.

I honestly meant no offense when said I thought it would be pretty cool if they started training the phlebotomists at our hospitals to draw from PICC lines. I just wanted her to know that I knew how inconvenient it must have been for her to have to hunt down an RN every time she had to draw from a PICC when were always so short staffed. I spoke from experience of the frustration I often had trying to find help changing a patient at busy times of the night when it was hard to locate another nurse for help. She even laughed and agreed that it would be easier. I just wish she would have gone to me with her problem and told me to my face about how I had offended her instead of going behind my back and taking it to the director.

I can't change anything and what frustrates me the most is that the complaint was uncalled for. I had no negative feelings towards her, I wasn't annoyed at the situation, and all I wanted to do was initiate small talk like we always did when I saw her drawing blood. I never felt like I had deviated from a professional manner for after all, I was wondering aloud ways we could improve our hospital and the quality of our patient care. How are her feelings regarding the situation and genuine questions in any way my fault?

My main question is, will this complaint be considered a write up and stay permanently on my record? The director did have me sign the copy of the email she received as evidence that I had received it and she had spoken to me about it. what happens next?

I would be leary approaching her alone, particularly if she's the smile to your face and complain behind your back type. I would approach your manager first... if she feels it would be appropriate, schedule a quick meeting the three of you. Or send an email with your manager cc'd. Or do nothing and don't exchange more than pleasantries in the future.

Honestly, though, in the future, don't get so inquisitive about why it's policy that someone can't do xyz. Especially someone ranking lower than you. That's something for the manager. We've probably all had it done to us by a physician or another. That sort of questioning can easily be misconstrued as push back and is simply annoying. I wouldn't have lodged a formal complaint but yeah... don't be that person.

OP, I am much like you, never bring my problems to work, team player, always smiling, etc. As a newer RN, and second career, I asked the very same question out of genuine curiosity. I personally do not get so offended by simple questions if the intent is to learn. I also do not get offended, to the point I run and tattle, when someone is grumpy one day. If that is not their norm then I assume they are just having a bad shift like we all have from time to time.

I have also been blindsided by the sugary sweet smiling coworker that never said anything to my face but went to the manager behind my back with a ridiculous complaint. Lesson learned for me. You will never be able to please everyone so just be the best you can be. If the climate on your unit is to write everyone up for petty things then you might want to look for a new Work home.

I'm sorry this happened to you.

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