Hello everyone! I have a bachelor in Health Services Administration... To be honest, when I was in college, I was confused about what I wanted to study but wanted to focus on healthcare and Business... I was suggested to complete the bachelor in HSA and I also completed a minor in business... After graduation, not knowing what I wanted to do, I decided to join the military where I became a machinist... I did not like that job. I don't like to work with my hands doing mechanical work. It's just not my passion. I recently left the military, and I went to school to take some extra classes to apply for nursing. I already applied for the program, and I am waiting for a decision. I also got accepted for a Radiation Therapy program ( Both programs are Bachelors).. But the problem is that I am still not sure whether I really want to do any of them. I am told RT has no jobs. When it comes to nursing, I have a weak stomach and I don't quite like to deal with blood, vomit or any nasty stuff... Because of that, my wife does not think I would be successful as a nurse. She's also a nurse. She thinks I am too sensitive. I am also offered an opportunity to work for an insurance company where I would go to grad school for a finance degree... I am so confused that I have no clue what I want to do with my life. By the way, I am in my mid 30s... I would welcome some honest advice with anyone? Please be frank and open! Sometimes I go to job interviews but I don't get hired because they can tell I am not focused on a career. I am so tired of it that it stresses me out and makes moody. I am so desperate for a great career. I am already getting old, and I feel like I am failing in life. Please help!
I would like to thank everyone who the replies and suggestions... I am now seeking some professional help. I hope to find my calling soon. I just can't wait. Thank you again
Hello everyone! I have a bachelor in Health Services Administration... To be honest, when I was in college, I was confused about what I wanted to study but wanted to focus on healthcare and Business... I was suggested to complete the bachelor in HSA and I also completed a minor in business... After graduation, not knowing what I wanted to do, I decided to join the military where I became a machinist... I did not like that job. I don't like to work with my hands doing mechanical work. It's just not my passion. I recently left the military, and I went to school to take some extra classes to apply for nursing. I already applied for the program, and I am waiting for a decision. I also got accepted for a Radiation Therapy program ( Both programs are Bachelors).. But the problem is that I am still not sure whether I really want to do any of them. I am told RT has no jobs. When it comes to nursing, I have a weak stomach and I don't quite like to deal with blood, vomit or any nasty stuff... Because of that, my wife does not think I would be successful as a nurse. She's also a nurse. She thinks I am too sensitive. I am also offered an opportunity to work for an insurance company where I would go to grad school for a finance degree... I am so confused that I have no clue what I want to do with my life. By the way, I am in my mid 30s... I would welcome some honest advice with anyone? Please be frank and open! Sometimes I go to job interviews but I don't get hired because they can tell I am not focused on a career. I am so tired of it that it stresses me out and makes moody. I am so desperate for a great career. I am already getting old, and I feel like I am failing in life. Please help!
Wow. You sound so directionless it's amazing. Bachelor's degree and went into the Navy as a machinist. How did you manage that? Did you separate with an Honorable Discharge or were you kicked out? With your degree, did you check into the Navy Medical Service Corps where you could have been an officer? I applaud you on your discipline to get your degree, but why did you get it and do nothing with it? Think about what you like and what you're good at. Use that to determine what you want to do. There are no jobs for radiation therapy- don't go there. And if you're squeamish, nursing is not for you. You need to mature despite your age and figure it out.
I think you should take some time to think about what you really ENJOY doing in your daily life. You seem to be eager to help others but unable to deal with things that are "gross". Perhaps with all the education you are receiving, you could become involved in some type of social work? Find what you love and do that. You are clearly intelligent enough to go after what you do decide to tackle. Good Luck!!
On a side note....those of you being quite rude and intolerant....maybe YOU should reconsider YOUR choice in nursing!
Mr. Confused
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I would like to thank everyone who the replies and suggestions... I am now seeking some professional help. I hope to find my calling soon. I just can't wait. Thank you again