Can not make it out of orientation???

[2bAngilRN]

Hi All!

In a recent lecture, some of our instructors shared their stories about being a new grad, what to expect, finding a job, confidence, specializing, etc. A student asked them what THEY would be looking for in a new grad? After some initial discussion one of the instructors said that some new nurses or nurses that are new to their facility are not able to make it out of orientation. I was shocked! I need to know further what would constitute a nurse not being able to make it out of orientation? Besides, they passed boards and the interview, right??

[Flatlander]

This comment seems like it's describing me. I've been fire from three jobs in my new grad year after orientation at each one of them. I'm definitely the first type of nurse and in all honesty, I have a hard time managing time and mastering skills. I make a lot of mistakes that make me unsafe. It is a drain on my coworkers and creates a problem. And I have a hard time being in the position of being the ignorant newbie and I have a hard time asking questions and asking for help. That's just me and my personality. Perhaps I'm not suited to be a registered nurse. It's not so much that I'm not smart. Nursing isn't for everyone. Unfortunately, I didn't realize it wasn't for me until I was already invested. It's too bad I couldn't have faked it and shined it on, making some use out of it until I was able to move on.

After being fired three times, it's no wonder if you're feeling demoralized. I'm curious to know what areas of nursing you were in, because there are so many different types of nursing jobs. I hate to see anyone completely give up on the career/field they've invested in and worked so hard for. I have to believe there is a job and place that will suit your strengths and where you will receive the support to achieve success as a nurse. It may be premature to permanently close the door on a certain type of nursing, too. Maybe you just aren't ready for some types at this stage of your career, but you may be ready someday. I hope you explore all the options available in your location to find a match and a fit that feels right. I also hope you keep an open mind about your career path. There are so many stories of people who finally succeeded after innumerable set-backs. Be one of those!

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