From my understanding her situation isn't good. She has mitral valve prolapse, chf and her EF is 30%. On top of that she had a defibrillator implanted. It is now 6.5 years old. She refuses to go to a cardiologist for updates. Her reply is that she'd rather not know bad news. I think it's selfish as all get out because we have twins (5 years) to think about and it scares me. I live with a fear she can pass overnight and nobody knows. I hope that defibrillator does its job and all, but she needs to go to the doctor.
How do I get her there or do I not really have to worry so much?
TwinDaddy, CNA
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From my understanding her situation isn't good. She has mitral valve prolapse, chf and her EF is 30%. On top of that she had a defibrillator implanted. It is now 6.5 years old. She refuses to go to a cardiologist for updates. Her reply is that she'd rather not know bad news. I think it's selfish as all get out because we have twins (5 years) to think about and it scares me. I live with a fear she can pass overnight and nobody knows. I hope that defibrillator does its job and all, but she needs to go to the doctor.
How do I get her there or do I not really have to worry so much?