Discouragement from others - Do I have what it takes?

Nursing Students Pre-Nursing

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Hello! I'm 22 and currently finishing up my per-requisites to apply to the nursing program in the near future. Currently, I hold a 4.0 GPA. While in high-school I was a bit of a wild child, couldn't focus, and graduated with a whopping 1.7 GPA. Needless to say, I've obviously changed.

After high school graduation, I started my work in the healthcare field. I have been a caregiver for a little over 4 years now. (CNA, Caregiver, & Direct Care Worker working with the Developmentally Disabled population). I know this is what I want to do, I couldn't imagine doing anything else. I care about it, but I also want it.

Nursing seems to be the going trend for most females in my area, and I'll even admit that some females are just going with the flow like everyone else. To me, not anyone can be a nurse. I know that I'm not an RN but I have worked in this field and know that I would like to continue my job and move up on the food chain.

After working a few years after high-school I realized entry-level jobs get you no where and that I need to do this, do something to succeed. My entire family background is low-income, uneducated people. Today, something really irked me while in class.

When applying for the Nursing Program at my school, its a point system and GPA is one of the biggest points value. Like I have said previously, I hold a 4.0- But I am nervous about taking the remaining classes next semester. Next semester I have to take Microbiology and A&P II together. As I was stressing my nerves to one classmate about how I need to maintain my GPA, another one chimed in, "Well if your GPA drops, maybe this isn't the right field for you." Excuse me?

All day long I've been thinking of this comment.. who is she to say that? Maybe she is judging that off other factors? Do I not look professional enough? Mind you- I don't know this girl at all.

In one sense, It makes me want to push harder. An old client of mine was a retired surgeon; he had told me before he had to apply for his residency program several times before getting in, and before starting med school he obtained a 2.8 GPA. This gives me hope, but still. Is she right? Or am I wrong?

Specializes in Emergency Room.

I would just brush that comment off and just focus on yourself. You are probably better off than your classmates with your GPA and experience so what do they know? You should be proud that you have a 4.0 and it is impressive that you already have experience in the field, don't let anyone take that away from you. Microbiology and A&P II are not easy classes so you should try your best but if your GPA drops, it is not the end of the world. I was nowhere near a 4.0 in pre-reqs and I am currently in my first semester of nursing school. Just stay strong and don't give up!

Well, I wonder what her GPA is! Don't worry about some people like that! You will be a fine nurse!

I am in my first year of pre-reqs and I have stopped telling people at school that I am going into nursing. Why? Because of this exact thing your talking about. Every person I meet is going into Nursing, and has something negative to say if you tell them that you are as well. I am 41 years old today, and I don't have time or the patience for small minded individuals. I have made friends with two girls and one guy that are going into Nursing, and we are really being supportive of each other. Find a few people that you can talk to, and stick with them. Take anyone negative out of your life.

Don't listen to her. That's a silly ignorant comment. You do NOT need a 4.0 to be a good nurse. A lot of the nurses I work with had mediocre grades going into clinicals, and didn't get straight As through clinicals. And they are great nurses. GPA isn't everything.

Honestly I think I would've given her a dirty look. You know a lot of the best medical professionals are not the most "book smart" .... They have common sense! I doubt she does... Cause if she does, she wouldn't of said that.

You sound like you have your heart and mind into so shake her off... Because I'm sure she won't last in the field.

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