nursing care r/t pregnancy termination

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staff note:please, answer the op's questions about how to provide proper care for patients following the loss of a pregnancy (for whatever reason) and the other things she wanted to know. do not post about the inadequacy of her instructor/program in this thread. do not turn this into a thread about the morality or immorality of abortion. thank you.

i don't wish to start a flame war, but i have some honest questions.

i am just weeks from graduation from a public college, to become a rn. my program director admits to keeping anything remotely relating to abortion completely off-limits. her values are very conservative, so the curriculum seems to reflect it (birth control was also left out). the textbooks they chose don't mention the nurse's role when a pregnancy ends without a live birth. when i did maternity/peds rotation, it was never mentioned. as we got to the part about molar pregnancies and eclampsia, all i was told was that the "resolve the pregnancy". i still know nothing about it, other than it makes some people angry enough to picket planned parenthood and it saves the lives of other people. :confused: the internet is even worse -- everyone shouting at each other and very little medical-focused info.

nursing care: i am guessing it might be to monitor for hemorrhage and infection. but there has got to be more to it than that? is care any different depending on trimester? on miscarriage ("natural") vs pharmaceutical vs surgical terminations?

if conditions are incompatible with life later in the pregnancy, is it considered an "abortion" to use surgical intervention to remove an already deceased fetus?

do nurses get training in how to handle the psych aspect for a post-abortion patient? not all women who have abortions want to terminate. is a psych or post-partum type screening typical done?

do nurses interested in a obgyn/reproductive health type specialty get any additional education? or do you just pick it up on the job as you go? and can you ask colleagues about it and be sure to get an accurate answer? or is talk relating to it greatly discouraged in the workplace, too?

does anyone here regularly give nursing care to women following pregnancy termination (intentional or miscarriage)? forgive what might be a naive question: but if you work in a clinic setting, is it true you have to be scared of terrorists and harassment? or has television really exaggerated that?

what is the nurse's role as patient advocate, when a dr's personal/religious beliefs cause permanent harm to a patient? eg. when a mother's life is in danger and a provider doesn't want to consider terminating the pregnancy or doesn't want to treat a recent post-termination pt who is having a complication.

thanks for giving me your professional advice, as i graduate and head into practice. i apologize in advance if i've offended anyone by asking about this topic. i know how strongly some people belief for/against this issue, and i do respect everyone's' beliefs on this issue. i just need some factual information. thank you.

Hi.

I cannot give you the input of a nurse (yet) because I am just a student but I can tell you what I know so far from my experience. I lost my daughter at 18 weeks 1 day due to PPROM (preterm premature rupture of membranes)... :scrying: There was no warning it just happened and unfortunetly I was part of that 3% (or less) of women this occurs to. No infection, no other issues.

Anyway, when I got to a hospital they barely let me get admitted into OB since they don't take anyone under 18 weeks. Finally, the nurses tried to calm my husband down saying it may not be my water and it may be urine. I knew better. I will never forget the smell of amniotic fluid. After getting an iv and the basics, they tested me with the strip and it turned blue right away. I burst into tears before they could even say anything. They called for an ultrasound and there was no fluid around her and I was basically told my only option is to induce labor because trying to keep the pregnancy was not an option. I realize the risk of infection, death and birth defects were very high and we had to make the decision to terminate the pregnancy.

It was the HARDEST thing I have ever gone through but I will be honest. If it wasn't for the nurses who cared for me I don't know how it would have went. My doctor was a...aheem I won't say the word but he didn't even bother to come and gave all orders by phone. They made it the best experience it could have been given the situation and circumstances.

I was placed in my own room and given time to think and grieve, to process everything, to cry, signed the papers and got the process started. I remember a student nurse being there and when they inserted the pill to start the process she couldn't reach my cervix and the regular nurse had to help. I was so distraught I didn't care or mind. They hugged me, talk to me, spent as much time with me as possible and were always there when I needed. Like I said it was a horrible experience and complete shock. I had my 18week appt that morning and there I was losing my daughter. They made it bearable.:crying2:

When I delivered about 7 hours later both were there to help me, and then they gave us a long time to hold our daughter, take pictures, etc. We even bathed her and dressed her into the little clothing they give you. It was a package where you were given clothing, a blanket, some prayers, how to deal with grief, foot prints, etc.

A couple of weeks later I got a call that they had also taken her pics and got them back and when I am ready to come pick them up. This is a free service the hospital offered which helped tremendously to deal with things. I left work at 12am one night and went to pick them up and one of the nurses sat with me in the room for almost 30 mins talking to me while I was crying (flashbacks)...

Anyway, sorry the post is so long but I wanted to answer even though I don't have all the technical experience on the nurses's side, I thought it would be helpful to get the patient side of things so you can better understand that although it may seem like you make a difference because you cannot change the situation, you can.

I am grateful for the nurses I had and I have alot of respect for them. I wasn't the easiest patient and the sounds of a baby being born sent me into tears and screams but... they were there and understood. They made sure the physical pain was not something I had to think about also because I just couldn't bare the reality and the pain together.

Best of luck to everyone!

PS. In front of your patients or paperwork they may see, never call it an abortion if it was not optional. Just my input.

Specializes in OB.

Aly - I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter.

I want to commend you on your posting to give the OP (and others) a view from the other side of the bedrails.

The care you describe receiving from your nurses is a perfect blueprint for the kind of care anyone going through such a tragic situation should receive.

I would like to add a note for caregivers - if there is a partner involved please remember that even though they are not going through the physical ordeal they are also experiencing a trmendous loss and need your consideration also.

Thanks BagladyRN. I got to a point where it helps to share my experience. Thanks to everyone who read it. I think although it was a very horrible and traumatic experience it now makes me a perfect canidate to care for someone going through something similar and I definetly am pretty much an expert at PPROM now. I have read so many studies, books, forums that I could take a test on it.

And yes, I agree. The partner or family do need some attention as well. My hubby didn't want to leave my side even though I wasn't even dialated 2 cm yet and the nurses tried to convince him to go and get coffee, a snack or something. He had just worked a 10hr shift when it happened so he was exhausted. He still didn't want to leave so they brought him coffee. Certainly not in the job description but so worth it. Its something I won't forget.

Thank you for posting these questions! I am very interested to read through the responses and learn something as well! I go to a Catholic university and needless to say anything along the lines of abortion in my program is never spoken of! The nuns still have a great influence on how everything is ran from the money to the curriculum (as much as they can control with that). Several of my teachers are nuns, the dean of the university is a nun, they have a mother house on campus, and they even have a very large nursing home on campus for the nuns that have retired!

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