I'm really drawn to babies and labor and delivery. When I was first pregnant several years ago I read TONS of books and decided I really wanted to be a midwife one day. I lost that pregnancy at 23 weeks and it was very devastating for me. When I graduated from nursing school I went into ICU instead of L&D because my wounds still felt fresh and I didn't want to feel jealous of my patients -- I wanted to feel happy for their new additions.
So, more than a few years have gone by and I got a GREAT job on a wonderful L&D unit. I'm in the orientation this week -- just the one where human resources goes over everything with you. I haven't even worked on the unit yet.
I just found out my baby died a couple days ago (I was 10 weeks pregnant). This was my husband and mine's second pregnancy. I am really devastated.
I honestly think I'd be a GREAT L&D nurse. I've got all the critical thinking and multi-tasking skills of an ICU nurse but I'm also really kind and good at explaining things and making people comfortable. I just don't want to be sad or emotional about my work because of my person life and frustrations.
I'm supposed to be back in my orientation seat tomorrow at 8am.
I know no one here can tell me what to do, but I just wanted to write out my thoughts and maybe get some experiences or feedback. Thanks so much.