I work in a LTC facility, and I have had one resident for quite a while, who seemed to be one of those who just gets dropped off by the family, and never thought of again. From the records, it doesn't seem like they had been to visit in about a year. The contact numbers were disconnected, the certified letters we sent out were returned... I even went to facebook and other social sites trying to match up the contact name, with some photos of the family left with the patient. No such luck. I have personally replaced her wardrobe as needed, bought her snacks, stocked her fridge, etc etc.
In the mean time, this patient contracted C-diff, multiple pressure sores, and had a tremendous change in function. During her latest stint at the hospital, I went to medical records and went through the things that had been thinned out of the chart, and somehow found a new phone # listed on the bottom of a 3 year old page from the hospital.
When contacted, the patients family sounded angry that I had contacted them and bothered them with all of this information, wanted to know why their mother was in a different state than they had left her a year ago... etc etc- you've all had difficult family members.
NOW- here's my problem. They want her pulled out of the nursing home, out of the hospital, and they want to take her home. This woman is incont, with pressure sores to the sacrum that's forever being irritated by the Cdiff stool. She doesn't walk, she can't sit up by herself, and she's on honey thick liquids and a puree diet, and I am suspecting she even aspirated on that.
There is no way this family can take care of this woman. She'll be dead in a week. I find it highly suspicious that you go from not seeing your mother for a year, to suddenly wanting to take her home with you. In a perfect world, I suppose they have learned their lesson, but it's not.
I've pushed and pushed our social worker to get DFACS, or adult protective services involved, but it's been a week, and she's done nothing. The hospital social workers seem to think I'm causing a scene because the family wants to sue my facility.
Is there ANYTHING else I can do to protect this patient?