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I'm not sure if this is a generational thing or a gender thing. I'm in an accelerated RN program so about half the class is in their 20s and half in their 30s and 40s (with two guys in their 50s). We have 30 women and 7 men. There are a group of about 10-12 students, all female and all in their 20s, who complain about everything and want everything handed to them on a platter. A few examples:

When we had our med checkoff coming up, there was a school-wide email outage so there was some problems getting the med list to everyone. The checkoff was on a Friday and the Wednesday before, our lab teacher said that people could do the checkoff the following Friday instead if they wanted to. The immediate response was "can we do it on Tuesday?"

Our teachers stopped reviewing tests in class because people argued so much about the questions. They would spend literally 10 minutes arguing about one question.

One teacher planned to have a regular class during finals week. Students complained so much about it, she finally relented and said she would do a review session during the regular class time, starting at 8. The immediate response was "can you start at 9?"

And my favorite is the student who - not once but twice - has asked a teacher to give her credit for a test question she got wrong because she filled in the wrong bubble.

I don't know if it's a generation Y thing or a gender thing, or just the luck of the draw. They have such a sense of entitlement about having everything handed to them. It got so bad that a few of us actually went to one of the teachers to tell her that the complainers don't speak for all of us.

Does anyone else have to deal with this crap?

Specializes in Post Anesthesia.

Yep- 26 years ago the U of A CON students were just as you describe now- It made me NUTS! Part of it isn't the silver platter attitude but rather a lack of consistancy and discipline in the C of N. It seemed at the time, that in Organic Chem, Western Cult, Economics..,- the tests would be well written, the answers made sense, there was only one "most correct" answer to each question. In the C of N there always seemed to be a general ambiguity about each instructors questions. It was more an opinion poll than an exam on the facts of nursing care. Thus the "review sessions" were where even people with "D" s had a chance for the honor role. Nurses are care givers and have only in the last 20 or so years begun to think of themselves as as a profession of science rather than a calling of service. Because of this, I think the cut-n-dry test making and taking skills will be another generation in the making for our profession.

Not a generation thing, I'm 23 and I find that totally ridiculous. It's more of a you have a classroom room full of spoiled lazy students thing. I would appreciate being in class and having a chance to live my dream rather than complain about class. :crying2:

I had a fellow student in Microbiology who was apparently an amateur immunologist and felt the need to correct the instructor on a regular basis. It would have been one thing if she would have been correct, but 99.9% of the time she was wrong. I finally snapped in lab one day during a group project when she informed me that "just because there is contamination on the plate, doesn't mean that we can't still use it." I calmly looked at her and stated "Were you not paying attention the first day when the instructor told us NOT to use contaminated plates and tubes; and has it ever occurred to you that the logic that you are using right now is probably the reason you are taking this class for the SECOND time?" You could have heard a microbe sneeze after I said that. I'm not a mean person, I'm actually really nice, but sometimes you have to draw the line in the sand.

Wow wish I was a fly on the wall that day!!!

Specializes in NICU.

It's not necessarily a generational thing (that's a pet peeve of mine), however, it sounds like you have a bunch of charmers in my class. How much longer do you have?

We just finished the first semester and have another year to go.

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