Too much on my plate need advice!!!! - page 2
Hello everybody I need some advice I am currently a nursing student in my 4th semester I have a husband ,4 kids, a full time job and I am also taking*care*of my grandparents*I gave up my house I... Read More
Jul 27, '10Your "family members" are only ****** at you because they realize that the time will come form THEM to actually make a decision and help out with your grandmother. Put yourself and your husband first and GET THE HECK OUT OF DODGE!! You will feel guilty about it when you do it, but in the long run, you will be better off. Trust me when I say that stress can make YOU sick.
Jul 27, '10Your guilt tripping relatives are abusing you. Your priority is not your grandmother, it is you then your husband and children. I sense you are a really nice person--too nice, and other people have and sill are taking advantage of you.
Unfortunately the only person that can help you is yourself plus an outside counselor. Your health will suffer soon and you will be no use to anyone.
Get out of this nightmare and be the best wife and mother you can be. The relatives are truly self serving and no matter what you decide there will be conflict.
Just do it--think of your kids--why aren't they a priority?
Just a thought