Is this Junior High again?

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Ok I need some advice here!

I am in an ADN program and right now I'm on my Peds rotation. I was really looking forward to Peds and Maternity for the change from Med/Surg, but now my fellow students have decided ot act like this is Jr. High again. We had to team up two students to one patient this week, and I got left out of all the team work. My "partner" asked for help from the other teams rather than me. Many conversations stopped dead when I walked into a room. So many snide comments were made about what and how I did on the floor. I could go on but you all get the point!

Most of this, I know, originates from one fellow student who has always been ticked off that I get 'A's in classes, am confident, strong-willed, and have a happy marriage and life, etc. She gets everyone else going and I get excluded.

I know just to rise above the pettiness, but I have been so well excluded that I got "spoken to" by the instructor--who seems a bit naive-- about not working as a team.

I went home yesterday and cried! I was so excited about Peds and now I'm looking at having to do battle every time I go to clinicals!

What should I do? HELP!!!!

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That is certainly GOOD NEWS !!!

I'm glad she is working with you and understands the situation!

Unfortunately that student is only hurting herself by her actions.

Continued success Misty:) :nurse:

Oh this is good news! I am so glad to hear that she is helping you out on this.

I am worried that this might be the situation that I will get into when I start school in January. I have always been a perfectionist and people tend to not like me. Not only that but it is hard for me to get to know people. I'm just not a 'clicky' person, and don't have time for the games. So I know what you mean.

I hope this clinical experience works out for you.

In nursing, don't get me wrong it is a great job (as an LPN anyway) but there are constant issues like this it seems....but the problems are NOT with the patients we care for ...IT IS THE OTHER NURSES!!!

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