Hi,
I am 29 years old, a mother of two young boys (ages 3 and 1), and I am starting nursing school in January 2007. I have a BA in journalism, but jobs are too hard to find in this field, and when I do find one, they pay terribly and I find them very unfulfilling. I have worn several hats in this field over the past 8 years, and none seemed to fit me nor fulfill me.
My sisters and several of my inlaws are nurses, and they all love it. So, after much thought and prayer, I have decided to go back to school.
The thing is, I have been a stay-at-home mom for a year and a half now. However, finances have been super tight, and we realize that it is important for us to have a second income in the future.
Even though I am truly excited about starting nursing school and beginning this chaper in my life, there is a part of me that is nervous about how this will affect me as a mother.
I realize that I will not have as much time with my boys. I think the main thing I am nervous about is the "guilt" associated with that. My husband says to think of it in terms of 'I am doing this FOR my boys' -- meaning that, I will be able to provide more for them in terms of money for college funds and other things in life ... this will "enhance" their lives, not "take away" from it.
I know of mothers who made it through nursing school and on to successfuly careers. I know it must have been hard on them in many ways, however. I was wondering if any of you have young children, or even older children, and how it affects you as a nursing student ... and also how you cope with juggling both motherhood and student?
I guess I just need some encouragement in this area. I love my little boys so much and I do love staying home with them ... It's just that, I also know that the time will come when they are not at home anymore ... when they are in school ... and I will need something else fulfilling ... I even think about when they go to college -- If I did not pursue my dreams of becoming a nurse NOW -- maybe I would regret it later when my sons are off at college and I wished I had done something to better myself and provide a significant income. You know?
And, there is also a part of me as an individual that wants to help others and make a difference in their lives. I have not really felt that in my time as a journalist -- I always felt like I had more to give. I rarely went home at the end of the day thinking, 'I really felt like I touched people's lives today and showed them the love of God.' I have just always felt like, surely there is something else out there for me.
Any words of wisdom, advice, encouragement, etc., is welcome. I am glad to have found this site.
Thanks,
Alli