Thank you in advance to anyone who would be willing to take a few minutes to give me advice on this. I am working as a staff nurse on a med-surg floor. I have been at this job for about 4 months now, and only off orientation for 2 1/2 months. I like the job alot but I desperately want to quit. I moved to another, bigger city, thinking it would be a great change and that I would like it alot better. However, I'm 14 hours away from all my family and friends. I love the city I'm living in, its why I moved, and the job is great, but I am so miserable. I want to move back to where I came from. I cry all the time, I started having really bad anxiety, I can't sleep, and I have no appetite. I have bought so many plane tickets to go home for the weekend that I will go broke if I keep it up. And my parents and friends are spending alot of money flying out to see me because they miss me and feel bad that I am homesick. It would be financially challenging but manageable to move again. The thing is, I feel so bad about quitting this job only a few months off orientation. My coworkers have been so nice and helpful. Some of them really went out of their way to help me meet people and learn my way around a new city. It is a well-staffed unit-they'll be just fine without me, but I can't bring myself to do it. Do you think they'll understand? I want to be fair and give 4 weeks notice but am nervous about whether it will be uncomfortable. I'm going to wait until after the holidays to put in my resignation but just don't know how to approach it. I also got a relocation bonus and in return am supposed to stay a year. Am I obligated to stay?? Can I pay it back and leave on good terms? Will it look bad when I am looking for another job that I left this job after only 5 or 6 months? I worked at my previous job for 3 years and left there in very good standing. I am proud of myself for having the courage to try such a big change, but I know now its not right for me. Sorry for the long post. Thanks!