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- Apr 5, '01 by Q.Originally posted by chigap:
I have been out of nursing for over a year now. I feel like a new person, but sometimes I just miss it sooooooo much. Brownie, your post about nursing and how young people view us touched me very much. My aunt was a nurse and I thought she was up there with God (in the good karma department -- not in the way people view physicians). I don't think people see nurses that way anymore. People say "Oh, a nurse? How wonderful! I could never do that." But they say it in the same voice they use to patronize their cleaning lady or anyone else who does something the wouldn't be caught dead doing.
When you think about it, society as a whole has lost all respect for all things directly related to caring for others (clergy, full-time mothers, nurses, teachers, etc). Make a million dollars selling sex to people on the internet and you're a socialite.
- Apr 5, '01 by MijourneyHi colleagues. What thoughtful posts! You've all hit the nail on the head in your own way. Nursing is not an attractive profession for all of the above reasons. The question is who will mind the store when no one is there to pick up the pieces? When we need help ourselves, what will we have available to us for nursing staff?
I have no plans of ever returning to institutionalized bedside nursing. But, I feel strongly that facility-based bedside nurses must get the support needed, because what I do and what happens to my patients in the home is directly affected by what happens to the patient in the hospital.
- Apr 5, '01 by JeanthePHNwell I dont agree. I am 40 and had 2nd generation immigrant parents who never graduated from high school and worked menial jobs all their lives and told me to "be a nurse cause nurses always have work" I was so shy and naive and ignorant when I was 16 17 yrs old I did not know I was chosing a job that wiped butts or body parts, or worked all hours and days of the week. My stupid little world did not know what nurses did as a job and neither did my parents. Of course teenagers and parents and the public dont really know what nurses do today either. When I finally graduated from school, thinking of all the glory and money I could make, I quickly learned I was a slave labor in a hospital as a med/surg nurse and got out. I took a easy, but almost minimum wage clinic job and stayed 10 years. I am one of those 40 something nurses and do regret every going into it. And if I had been born in 1975 or 1980 instead of 1960 I hope my choices would have been more than what my Depression era parents gave me.
- Apr 5, '01 by JennieBSNI think nursing is like every other job out there...it's not for everyone. I also think that part of the problem with young people not wanting to go into a field that isn't 'glamorous' or high-paying is because they have idols like rap stars and athletes that basically do nothing and get paid millions, and that is the standard.
On another note, it really makes me angry to see/hear other nurses discouraging young people from going into the profession. They may not be happy or like nursing, but it doesn't mean some of these other young folks won't. If it's their dream, don't crush it simply because you're unhappy with your choice. Let them decide for themselves if nursing is what they want to do. If they get into it and don't like it, they can always leave. I was in a sorority in college and HATED it, but when my sister in law asked my opinion on sororities before she stared college, I told her that she should at least try one out if she wanted to, because her experience might be different from mine. Just because I didn't have a good experience didn't mean she wouldn't. The same is true for nursing. Just my 2 cents.
- Apr 6, '01 by CEN35what can I say?
I think Kday makes a valid point.
- Apr 6, '01 by jo1998Originally posted by Susy K:
"...you haven't even been a nurse long enough to even have an opinion."
"...she has nothing to contribute to the nursing profession until she acquires some more experience."
"The nurse was created to assist the physicians with her or her duties, like wiping butts, emptying urinals, giving baths, giving pills."
"...Diploma nurses are the only true nurses. The rest just don't stack up."
"...you are glorified butt wipers, that's what you are...."
- Apr 8, '01 by walkawayReading all these posts reveals one thing about the people in this profession. It is truely a thinking group! I have also been concerned about the low enrollment into nursing schools. Speaking with friends of my children who are currently in college I would say that the money is the biggest factor to not choose nursing. The kids just want bigggg bucks! I have a son in engineering and he earned $18 an hour as a coop student still in college. Interestingly enough, his university last year did survey their teaching costs and the result was that the 2 most expensive courses to teach were engineering and nursing. As a result the university raised the cost of those two programs by placing semester surcharges on them. I don't think the new GNs will be getting the starting rate that the new engineers will get, even though their educations cost the same. The young people who are in nursing seem to be there because the are really going to love the work. Those I know have been working as aides first and just really admire the nurses they work under and seem to really want this. But alot of high school students have really not had an experience any where and they look up salaries on the internet and pick one with a high earning potential and just go for it.
- Apr 8, '01 by nurs4kids
My respect for you has grown greatly since the "rn vs lpn" thread . You really hit the nail on the head with your above post. Keep on typin' girl. Though I'm a little intimidated by your intelligence and spunk, <coughs> seeing that you're a LITTLE younger than me, I really enjoy reading your posts.
Lead us to the promised land, sister suzy!
Originally posted by Susy K:
I agree with all of you about the altruistic side of nursing. Hell, I think EVERY healthcare professional that chooses that route has some element of altruism. Big bucks or not, it takes some human compassion to do that job from day to day. I also agree with Tiara though. How "warm and fuzzy" can it be when you are working under conditions that don't allow you to do that? I've been happy lately when all my patients have been assessed and all my babies aren't blue. There's no interaction there. There's no connection. When I'm with a labor patient and we've bonded and I'm coaching her, etc, and that I'm told that I have to stay 4-8 hours more than my original 12 hour shift, a part of me grows to silently resent my patient, and I don't like that. When I finally get a relief nurse and I give report, and she nails me for forgetting to sign out some pain medications, I feel like crap. The little reward that I did feel from the small connection that I made with my patient was just lost.
Altruism or not, it does not put wood on the fire. In fact, I would feel better volunteering my time with children or the elderly, and get my human connection that way. But, nursing is my job. I need it to survive at this point. I need an income, I need a paycheck.
I see it as all one big vicious cycle. As Brownie stated above, nurses are people too, with feelings, resentments, baggage, and families. Just because we are in a caring field does not mean we shouldn't care about ourselves or each other. While we relish on the moments we spend with our patients - as I look in awe and wonder of a birth, as I see my patient smile because I just helped her breastfeed her newborn for the first time, as I see a new dad cry; these are all very rewarding to me. I couldn't ask for greater rewards. But these feelings only last so long. When it comes down to it, when the bills are due, when the public is growing distrustful of nurses, when I'm afraid I'm going to make a mistake because I'm working 16 hour shifts, when my own personal life suffers, then something has to change, and the altruism just doesn't cut it anymore.
I don't think we need to sell the idea of nursing to people using the human interaction concept. Most people get that. But there is no reason why human compassion and altruism can't go hand in hand with a professionally rewarding and respectful career as well.