Career path dilema: did I just make a big mistake?

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I feel like I just made a huge mistake.

I'm a new grad LVN. I Graduated in August 2007. I worked for 3 weeks on a med/surg floor. I just moved towns.

After a bunch of applications and resume faxing, I had 3 main choices.

1. Doctor's office - mainly office work, call backs, take hx, working with a med aid who can do everything I can, so I was told. Money was OK. They paid 50% of health ins. And the Doc said there would be opportunity for me as an RN in about a years time (when I'll be done with my RN).

2. Hospital med/surg - looked like hell. The discussion on preceptors for me between the director and "head nurse" wasn't very promising. In fact, it was very worrying. Basically I'd be having a new preceptor maybe every shift and I'd be changing from 12's to 8's and back and so on. Just looked like hell, and it looked like I was gonna get dumped. Scary.

3. Rehab - working nights 3x12's/week not acute care, so less stress. Still, somewhere I can do IV's, pass meds, mess with PEG, NGT's breathing treatments etc. Plus its nights, so I can attend nursing school for my RN easy.

The Doctor's office is the one I just turned down. I met the med aid they had just hired on my interview day and her first work day. She was wearing a hoody? Yeah it's 8-5 M-F but it's probably gonna be near 30 mins-hour in traffic each way, and my wife's routine is nearly the same, so our son would be on his own most school nights till 6-7. Weekends would be our get stuff done days. I cannot see how I'd schedule in RN school around a 9-5 schedule. The rehab is looking like my best bet, its like a 15 min drive, and I know it will be much slower pace than the hospital.

The Doctor for the doc office job even told me when I declined his offer that a position for an RN may still open up next year if I was inerested. He seemed more interested in my wife who's already an RN, because the RN position coming up is coming up in January...not something I could have made anyway. The RN position is going to be being his or another Doctor's nurse -it's a cardiolgoy practice- and working mainly in the hospital. He was only offering 36-40K/year for this RN position, which is low IMO. My wife earns just under double that right now.

Anyway, I figured a year or so down the line if something comes up, say I never got round to completeing RN school, I'll be an LVN with just office experience. I told him I really wanted to get some clinical experience.

It just feels like I made mistake, because I've heard its good to "get in" with a Doc because they'll take care of you especially if you're a guy etc... I dunno I just felt it was a risk and that a good foundation of clinical experience and time to complete my RN was a safer bet.

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Yikes, I just had to comment on that. Just exactly when are you planning to sleep? I'm assuming you'd need at least several more semesters of work to get your RN, and it's intense school work. Is your school during the day? When would you have time to do your night before clin prep? Would you be going from working all night to a day of clinicals? I'm just wondering when you'd have time to sleep.

I wish you the best of luck. The hospital RNcardiology job sounds nice down the road, but that doesn't sound like much $ for full time.

I figured I could work my work schedule around school....F/S/S nursing school normally gives you at least one day off. If not...online'll work.

thanks!

I think you made the right choice. That is not to say that you can't stay in touch w/this MD, if you or your wife really want to work w/him. Getting your skills sharp and finishing your RN and spending as little time away from your son sound like serious priorities to me!

BTW, what state do you all live in, and what kind of nursing does your wife do that she can make 75-80K a year? Does she work agency, or travel, or get a lot of OT?

Texas. She's a well experienced floor nurse -med/surg, tele, ortho, peds, home health...etc. worked in Louisiana, Los Angeles, San Fran...other places in Texas.

She works down town Houston for an infusion homehealth company. She basically is over all the nurses, but not the DON.

She used to come home crying most nights working on the floor. I'm sure most can relate, but she loves home health!

Specializes in ER, Occupational Health, Cardiology.

Good for your wife! She's had plenty of experience to know how to pick and choose what works best for her and for your family. With her prior experience it sounds as though you are going into Nursing with your eyes wide open. As someone who was an LPN and worked FT 3-11 on a tele floor while I was getting my prereqs for RN, and having two elementary-age children at home, I know a bit of what you are planning to do. Congratulations, and best of luck! BTW-the profession needs more men!

Specializes in Rodeo Nursing (Neuro).

I think you made a good choice. It could be tough to work around school, but at least it's a possibility. My limited exposure to rehab in school suggests to me that a.) it could be a great field to be in (and you'll have a foot in the door) and b.) it would be a great background if you decide to go into acute care. One of the things the rehab nurses harped on was how acute care nurses "mess up" their patients--I find I spend a lot more time and energy keeping people in bed than getting them up, but their remarks do remind me to be thinking about rehab. I can see where some practical experience with rehab could be very helpful.

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