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Ultimately, you need to do what will make you and your family the happiest since, in my opinion anyway, is the most important thing in life. Personally, I'm leaving a 6 figure income in an extremely stable career that has lasted 18+ years to persue a nursing career....with a home, family, etc. In regards to being able to support your family on just your income, that depends greatly on the region you're going to live/work. I was in the service for 10 years and have literally been around the world twice, and I can say that in any given country, the cost of living varies just as drastically as it does in the US.
I follow a rule that has helped me out more than once when deciding on a new position or role in my career. Money is always nice, but if you're miserable at work, you're going to be miserable at home.
That's part of it. I'm scared I will be miserable being in the same place all the time. I can't ever seem to make myself stay somewhere I don't like even if it's a good opportunity. I left a CNA job once because it made me so mad to watch people being mistreated by their insurance companies. People with stage 4 cancer would come to our rehab unit where they had to work out 4 hours a day and could only see their families for 4 hours a day. We would have people die in there when they could have been home with their families and died with some dignity. Instead, the insurance companies put them in a position where they had to be at the rehab first before going elsewhere if they were going to continue to pay. Maybe it's like that everywhere, maybe it's not? Maybe I would feel better knowing that I only had to deal with certain rules and certain people for 3 months and then I could move on? What if tho, I come home after a really stressful day and go off because I'm the sole bread winner and I'm jealous that he gets to spend all day at home with the girls? I feel like its a win-lose situation.
whites2013
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It's trying to figure some things out to make a solid decision. I've always wanted to be a traveling nurse, I'd really like to be international. I met a guy and I am now engaged to him. He has two girls, one is 12, the other is 10. We thought about traveling for a while and since we play music together, we could book shows in the surrounding area. My problem is, am I going to be able to support a family with only my paycheck? Is it worth him quitting his job and putting the girls in a home school program? Has anybody done any traveling nursing or know any good websites to look at so I can make a better decision. Btw, I'm in my second semester of nursing school and know you have to have at least a years experience in med/surg before you are eligible to travel.