OB Care Plan Help PLEASE!!! im desperate

[bebahloo]

I need desperate help. I have been working sooooo hard on my careplans but my instructor basically told me they stink. I am not asking anyone to write them for me just give me some suggestions on some NANDA diagnoses to pick based on priority for the human basic needs. I thought I was picking good ones but obviously not. Please anyone help!!! I need 3 for mom and 3 for baby.

Mom is 38.6 weeks. Mom is 39 years old. Hispanic but speaks pretty good english. Married. G 4 P 1. Mom has chronic hypertension. PIH ruled out. Otherwise healthy. Induction started 2 days ago with no success. Started induction via Pitocin for about 1 hour today. No change in dialation. Fetus not engaged. Doc decided C section and had one this morning with no problems. Mom is extremely concearned how older sibling will take to the new baby. She is worried he might hurt the baby. She is also really anxious about how she is going to get up with the baby because husband does not get up to help already and is worried she wont wake up. They have very traditional mother/father roles(dad works, mom stays home and cares for kids and home). Dad is really worried about having a girl and did not seem too excited about it before birth. He seems a little bitter about women in general. They were a very pleaseant couple and loved to talk about thier fears and life. They seem happy together. Baby had some fluid in lungs and needed suctioning but otherwise perfect. Dad did say he changed his mind about having a little girl and wouldnt put her down.