How to leave without damaging ability for rehire and relationships?

If you are staying 1-3 hours over your shift end time, I am thinking that this is not what they are talking about when they are saying "occasional overtime." They are probably saying there will be extra shifts offered occasionally. Does everyone stay this late, or is it just you? Is it mostly for documentation?

That is ridiculous. You are either not mastering their systems like you should be (I sort of doubt this, as the amount you are staying over is off the charts in my opinion) or their system is completely, totally ineffectual. I bet you anything this has a lot to do with your manager (like your co-workers are complaining about.)

I would say bring your concerns to your manager, but it sounds like they don't do much of anything.

If I were in your shoes, I think what I might do is talk to HR. Tell them what has been going on with your OT, your concerns with your manager, and ask them where you should go from there. It's hard to go over your manager's head to their boss when you are new in the system, but that might be something you want to consider, or even something HR would recommend. But anyway, they might have some ideas for you -- perhaps, since you are in the system already and unhappy, they could transfer you to another department. It's going to be hard to handle that tactfully with your manager though -- not sure there is any way around that.

Also, a probationary period applies to your employer trying out YOU, not the other way around. If you want to get out without negative consequences, I still think that you are going to have to give a notice, etc. and even then it might not look good if you quit, and then try to come back and get a job elsewhere in the system (since they are the only one around) -- again, another good reason to go to HR and see if you can't work something else out, preferably somewhere else.

Hope this helps you.

Thanks Becky for your insight. No, I am not the only one staying late. It seems they tend to "slap your hand" about the overtime, and then forget you. Administering Chemo and blood products takes time with lots of double checks and additional documentation, which takes time. This doesn't count preparing for the next days patients. What bothers me, is that there is no emphasis on or documentation of what I am doing or have done as a new employee! You know, competency stuff. I have never in my life seen this.

I did unexpectedly, have a meeting with the director of the CA center, who is your basic " I am the big guy around here" type of fellow. I told him that I did not like the overtime, and he agreed that it should be 'occasional' and that they did not like it either. I also told him the they needed "more boots on the ground" , but of course he danced around that. So I did my thing the best I could. The nursing director is 'overwhelmed' in her words, and is a sweet person, but it's still no excuse. I feel very sorry for her, as I think the director of the center renders her ineffective. Here's one for ya': One of the nurses would like a phone in her area so that she doesn't need to share, and can call and get responses to her questions for the other nurses, units, ect. Director won't do it!!! A phone...to expedite pt. care......now THAT one I would have went over his head with.

Unfortunately, one of the RN's will be leaving for sure, so there goes another resource. I have also found out that I can't transfer for 6 months, but I will contact corporate HR about that, as I really can't find the policy that defines the whole process (no surprise lol).

If worst comes to worst, I will just use the 'moving from the area, unexpectedly' excuse, as they do know that we have been having difficulty with housing. Hopefully, that won't impact my ability too much to secure another postion, within or outside the system, as I am fortunate to not 'have' to work to make ends meet at home.

I have also learned a valuable lesson ...to become more involved with the local professional organizations so that I can network and find out who the best employers are. I am a member, but not involved...until I quit and can get to the meetings lol

Anyway, thanks so much for taking the time to reply, and really appreciate your response.