How do I regain my momentum?

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I started the RN to BSN program in July completely motivated and ready to tackle the 32 credits standing between me and a BSN. I finished Nutrition in a little less than 3 weeks just before my daughter's father went on a drug bender and got arrested twice, all of which has forced me to become the sole provider for my daughter physically and financially. The last few months have been so incredibly draining both emotionally and physically which has forced me to put school on the back burner.

I started the term with so much optimism and energy, but now just reading a few pages of my textbook is almost next to impossible. On top of a lack of energy, my free time has become nonexistent as when I'm not working full-time or being a 2 year-old's mom I'm sleeping. Is there anything I can do to regain some momentum? My mentor has tried to be helpful and supportive, but I'm not sure if I have it in me to crank out another 6 credits to maintain my financial aid :(

Just remember that now you are the sole provider for your 2yo. Let this motivate you to obtaining your BSN and making an even better life for you and for her. I know about adversity and set backs. Just pull yourself together and remember, she is what's important, and in the end, you will find the strength and motivation to pull yourself through this situation.

Will your daughter watch TV? Could you turn on the some cartoons for 1-2 hours for her while you plug away at school work? I know it's not ideal, but it's only temporary and a couple hours of TV a day isn't going to hurt and will you give you both a better future in the end. Good luck!

I know what really helps me get going is exercising!! It gets those endorphins going and helps motivate me! Put you little one in a stroller and go for a long walk or run.

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