How do you feel about having other nurses as patients?

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Quite frequently, I find myself caring for patients who are nurses or who are former nurses, or those who have family members who are nurses. I have to say that these people make me a little more anxious than those who are not and those who do not have any family connection to nursing. When I see RN after a patient's name, it almost makes me intimidated, even though I'm an RN myself.

Although I'm not sure what, exactly, causes this anxiety, I think part of it has to do with feeling the necessity to perform to perfection. Not that I give substandard care to non-nurses, but I feel like I have to be especially mindful when I'm caring for a nurse. After all, they know what is going on, and will likely know if I'm doing something wrong or am missing something.

Does anyone else have this issue?

Keep in mind that the RN (or physician) you take care of, may feel very vulnerable when a patient him/herself.

I once awoke from what was supposed to be a day surgery, only to find myself admitted...on the floor that I actually worked on! Very vulnerable position and honestly, I was not well taken care of. I was appalled. I couldn't speak, and every time I'd ring the call light they'd ask "can I help you?" When I couldn't answer, they simply turned it off and didn't come in. It wasn't until I threw something out into the hallway that anyone paid attention to me. It really made me pay more attention to how I cared for my own patients.

And remember, many times, it is assumed that because a patient is a nurse, they know everything you are talking about, when in fact the area of practice for that nurse may well be entirely different than whatever area she is currently a patient in so she may not be familiar with all of the jargon or procedures. (Trust me, I'd be in unfamiliar territory if I were a renal/CVS/ICU patient...those are not my thing).

Just food for thought.

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